38 weeks , my partner sees no harm in attending a wedding?

[Anonymous]

I’m 36 weeks pregnant , I will be 38 weeks the date or the wedding, I’ve decided to sit it out as I don’t want to put myself and baby at risk ,
partner seems to think the baby will arrive when he’s says so ! Regardless if I go or not he’s attending and can see no harm or wrong in his decision

we can’t seem to agree as he can’t seem to see the harm in it. He’s the best man..
So he feels that under no circumstances should he sit it out but if his baby arrives around the same week or when he’s an hour drive away he’s willing to take the risk

he’s also went on a stags to Poland when the war in Ukraine had just started.

I feel like thrown the towel in and walking away as keeping up with appearances is more important.

[SueShe]

Your boyfriend does not seem to be able to set his priorities straight.

Since talking with him does not bring him to reason, then I suggest you talk the the newlyweds and let them know your condition and ask them what they think of his behavior and if they endorse the fact that he is taking a risk with you and the baby's life.

If it is possible for you, try to get friends or parents to stay with you on the day of the wedding. Whatever you do, ensure that you have a mean to get to the hospital without delay. You could contact the local taxi company and inform them about the possible emergency you could be faced.

Whatever measures you take, suffice to say that your boyfriend show his real character and that is unfortunately not the one any spouse or girlfriend would ever wish to have. I feel sorry for you to be stuck with this person.

[Iron_Man]

It’s very simple he should go to the wedding if your water breaks call him on the cell phone and he’ll be there immediately

[IveGotNoName]

What is your question?

[Wise4myage]

His priorities are screwed up.

[In_Trance]

So, do you have a question?

[In_Trance]

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