How do you win the heart of an introvert girl?

[Abiaja123]

[Gloree]

I'm an introvert. He is an extrovert. Here is how he won my heart.

-He didn't rush me-He was patient.-he was a friend even though he made his intention known on our first date that he wanted to date me.-I said please wait for my response and he waited. I finally responded after three weeks. But once a week, he would still ask again.-He listens patiently when I talk.-he compliments me. Gradually, I started returning the gesture.-he is not a billionaire but he spends for me with what he has. He shows me care like calls to find out how I am doing. Gradually, I started reciprocating.-he tells me he loves me until I gradually began to say it back. He never forced me.-he is friendly to my friends and family.-as an introvert, I don't like going out but he does. Here, he was patient for a while but after three cancelled dates, he prevailed on me. He said "I'm not asking for your opinion, we are going out for dinner and that's that."I was speechless and shocked, I sulked on the way but he just smiled and kissed my forehead. Now I enjoy going out almost as much as he does.-Be sincere with your feelings. Introverts can mostly tell when a guy is genuine. This is due to their extreme cautious nature.-Be understanding. She has to be able to trust you in order to come out of her shell. Good luck.

[Abiaja123]

He expressed his feelings to you after knowing you how long?

[Gloree]

Three weeks

[Abiaja123]

do you think when exactly I express my feelings to her? is it a month?

[Gloree]

A month is okay. But give her time to say yes. Infact you may suggest it.

[Gloree]

Remember to always assure her that she is safe with you.

[Abiaja123]

Can you give a suggestion about beautiful words so that the introvert girl melts her heart?

[Gloree]

I believe it's best if you tell her exactly how you feel about her. honesty works wonders

[SueShe]

Just be yourself and never pretend to be someone you are not.

Women like people that they can rely on and therefore, don't appear as a player or a person that is not serious. A little joke here and there is ok but avoid making dirty jokes or those with double meanings or innuendos. That would be a total turn off and your downfall.

Always be courteous and try not to swear because that tells a lot about your character and personality. A person that puts a swear word in every sentence would be indicative that he lacks the most basic education and is also easily influenced by peers.

You may have received a good education but if you let yourself be negatively influenced by your buddies to be someone you are not really, that will reflect in your attitude and that is a big negative aspect.

[Abiaja123]

if we explain about ourselves. doesn't that make her bored or annoyed?

[SueShe]

You can explain about yourself in an interesting and witty way that will keep her attention.

[Iron_Man]

Hi Sue 🤗

[SueShe]

@Iron_Man Hi Tiger. I see that you don't allow your girlfriends to have male friends. How many girlfriends do you currently have? :-)

[Iron_Man]

Oh that was in my whole lifetime because I don’t want to have problems because I know how guys are really sneaky. I have a close female gag friend that I’ve been talking to for 10 months but you also know her as well 10 months. She tried to apologize to you but you didn’t say anything back but you know what she looks like it’s the girl sitting in the chair with a striped shirt with black hair with the shorts on crossing her legs wearing sunglasses that used to make a lot of questions. But I found out that she’s actually real because she sent me a salute and holding A tablespoon.

[SueShe]

@Iron_Man I don't recall this girl at all.

[Iron_Man]

I tagged you in another thread that’s the only way I know how to send pictures I posted for the first time I mentioned you here are her pictures

[Guy13]

Lead with assuring gentleness. You make a decision of what you are doing with a slight lit in your voice and eye contact. 💪 It’s a statement with a slight question sound and raised eyes…. pause…. sound like fun statement with gentle eye contact.
—Train her. She’ll learn when to speak up or exercise Veto power.

[Lookingforthetruth]

Please stop wasting your time to "win a girl's heart". If a girl wants you she will make that perfectly clear and place herself in your path consistently to win her over.

[PrettyPriya]

You can only win someone's heart by being yourself and them finding your personality and who you are attractive.

There isn't much you can/should do to "force" someone to like you. This person you speak of will make that determination themselves. Best advice is to put your best foot forward and show them what a terrific person you are.

[Abiaja123]

Do I have to tell all my greatness and cover my shortcomings?

[PrettyPriya]

@Abiaja123 Everyone has shortcomings. That is something that the right person will accept about you, just as you will accept their shortcomings.

[Abiaja123]

Do you think introverted girls like to be chatted every day? Or when she just posts something?

[PrettyPriya]

@Abiaja123 she might or might not. Depends on the person. Online is a bit different. There are many girls here that describe themselves as introverted and very chatty.

[Abiaja123]

I know him not from this app. I know him from my first love. My first love had a best friend, so at that time my first love never replied to my chat. So I chatted her best friend. Then I got back into the relationship. At some point I wanted to ask she to marry me. But my first love didn't want it because of different cultures etc. So I stay in touch with she. But I feel like I'm considered a fan. L Then I approached she's best friend. She took a very long time to reply to my message. But I was patient and I ended up getting pretty close. I finally got caught by my first love. Since then she never replied to my chat again. And I explained but he didn't reply. Then I asked her introverted best friend. Do you think that my first love was never reply to my chat. Does she not love me anymore? She replied maybe. She advises not to chat with that person again and forget about she. Do you think this is the code that I can win she heart? Sorry if my English is bad (

[melaniee789456123]

As an introverted girl with a boyfriend, I would say definitely become friends with the girl first. Try and become friends with her by working with her if you can, hanging out with her, messaging her on social media/via phone number, e. t. c.
Once you guys become friends, initiate more times to hang out and continue contact with her for at least a couples of weeks.
Good luck!

[linka_pat307]

Listen
Be honest
Be patient with her
Be curious (Be eager to know what she has to say)
Be loyal
And have questions and discuss ur thoughts with her

[MCheetah]

The same as any other girl: Be tall, handsome, athletic, charismatic, and ridiculously overconfident.

[Apulu_3]

One of the most important thing to win heart of an introverted girl is to maintain her boundaries and respect it.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

In the most natural way possible. It’s like stealing a popular piece of work from an art museum or even better a Dinosaur museum

[Avicenna]

Be Patient and consistent

[Abiaja123]

consistent in what way? do I have to chat with her every day?

[Avicenna]

Something like that. It will take time for her to feel comfortable enough with you for you To ask her out

[Abiaja123]

Should I not rush to express my feelings?

[Abiaja123]

In your opinion, when is the right time to express my feelings to her?

[Anonymous]

I don't. It's been my experience that most introverts are narcissists. If she doesn't want to work for a relationship with me an expects everything to be handed to her I'm going to find a different woman who does want to make an effort.

[captain_voidwalker]

Same way you win any womans heart

[gabby100]

Trust and a lot of work..

[Waldoe]

slowly with small thoughtful gifts and small talk

[IsoUser]

Simply by being yourself an extrovert Guy

[Iron_Man]

Spoil her

[Abiaja123]

how i spoiled her?

[Iron_Man]

Shower her with fancy gifts and five star restaurants eating out at

[Abiaja123]

What if she is far from me?

[Iron_Man]

Then you better come up with a lot of creative things like I did when I had my long distance relationship and that requires sending her care packages through the US mail talking to her on the phone and constantly doing things together like eating together and watching movies falling asleep together etc. etc.

[Abiaja123]

Thanks

[Iron_Man]

You’re very welcome if she’s worth it you’re gonna have to do a lot of things online with her and on the phone make a plan with her in the future like taking a small trip together come up with things that she looks forward to in the future

[MrJMM]

Don't be an asshole.