Walk away. I did this in my earlier life, I didn’t want a relationship and I also didn’t want to hurt someone. I’d say what I wanted and when it wasn’t accepted I’d backpedal to make someone else feel better thinking I was being nice …. In reality I was making it worse and creating drama.
Later in life I realized to accept what it is. I enjoyed the relationship for what it was, when/if things changed and we were no longer on the same page it was time to move on and keep it clean. No fault of anyone, just in different places in life looking for different things.
Enjoy what it is on mutual understanding, if your needs change and the others haven’t accept it, smile, be thankful for the good experience and move on.
Timing in relationships is just as important as connection.
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His manipulating you let that be clear. Make decision of what you want, cus he won't. The end, any more questions?
He doesn't know what he wants. Sounds like he is conveniently wanting you when you leave but doesn't care to commit when you are there.
Honestly, it is a sign of immaturity from your description. If me, I would cut ties with this one. Just ask yourself one question: will this ever change? The answer is going to be no and you will be fighting this issue another 7 months from now.
He has real problems expressing his feelings. Maybe you guys should get counseling.
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What a effing narcistic thing to say to you. It takes you leaving for him to give a damn. Kick him to the road and find someone who will actually love you.
He sounds like a wishy washy slug. You can do better.
Don't get too comfortable
https://www.youtube.com/embed/wPhs_tPENDQSay bye bye you're looking at pure trouble sound like he is a little unstable watch your back
My guess is he has commitment issues, so why waste any more time on him?
This guy seems to have low testosterone. T is the hormone that brings people together.
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