Whose worse, the home wrecker or the one who took vows?

[tiajoka]

The married person whose engaging in infidelity

The home wrecker

They’re equally bad

Neither is wrong

[Moose304]

This question on its face appears to be a complex question. It's NOT! A person in a committed relationship should not only establish a boundary where the opposite sex is concerned, but they should also be careful to avoid situations where this may be a problem. I think I brought up Billy Graham a while back. This man would NEVER allow himself to be alone in a hotel room with a female not his wife. A homewrecker can't wreck a home if the married person respects boundaries. One of my friends with benefits is an Attorney. She has admitted to me many times how bad she is addicted to fine chocolates. For this reason, she stays out of places where these things are sold. Remember a boundary is more than not doing something, it's even avoiding the temptation by avoiding placing yourself in these kinds of situations. I know businessmen that have had to let female executive assistants go because of this. So my answer to this question is the person that took the vows is 100% at fault. The homewrecker is just the vehicle they used.

[Kaneki05]

The person who committed to someone. The person they sleep with, never committed to anyone therefore they've done nothing wrong. A person who's not committed to anyone can sleep with anyone, it's the people who have committed who cannot and need to keep self controlled.
Therefore the other is never to blame. Just always the one who chose to cheat.

It's honestly super dumb to ever have a problem with the one who is not a cheater over the actual cheater. It's called blaming the wrong person. If the person is proved to be a cheater it don't matter who they cheated with because they would of cheated with anyone they could.

[Sincerly_KittyCat]

The ome who is married is disgusting for cheating because:
1. Sometime the other person doesn't always know ( plus they dont owe spouse anything ).
2. The cheater is the one who made the vows.
3. They lack of self control and obviously doesn't love the their spouse.
4. They are risking their spouse's life for selfish desires.
5. Its a conscious decision and they WILLINGLY went along.

[Daniela1982]

They are both scum sucking maggots. But the edge does lean on the person who had taken marriage vows to forsake all others.

[Aerissa_Jade]

I dated a married guy once, I had no idea he was married though. The way I found out was his wife came to me and said, I bet you don't know. This isn't the first time... I immediately cut off the relationship.

He had told me he was single, it was cause of him I started doing some back ground checks on people to see if they were married if I was thinking of getting serious.

As such the one who made the legal contract is the worst... now if someone willingly does it knowing someone is married, then I'd say they are equally bad.

[LemonsAsks]

The person married should know better.
If an outsider gets together with a married person knowing they are married i dont think its anyone else's buisness. Obviously the marriage isn't working out. Or they might not of known.

The exception would be if they were trying to physically force themselves on them, knowing they were married.
Vs being invited into the house for sex.
Shame on the outsider if thats the case.

honestly is always best in any case.

[lucas262]

Depends.

2 on a island

The home wrecker keeps pushing it keeps pushing

And the guy or girl keeps giving in a little at a time

If it was my girl while I'd be hurt and angry I'd have to be pragmatic enough to know humans are visual and anyone will be tempted in the right scenario

[Nata2496]

The married person has a commitment to their spouse and to God to uphold their vows. They failed. The other is not without fault but the spouse acted worst.

[melanieeeB]

The person who is cheating.
And the Home wrecker, only when they knew about the marriage but if they had no idea, they're also a victim of this shit

[whereismyjohnny]

They are equally bad to me. The expectation is a ''home wrecker'' who didn't know the person is married and they got with them, but if you know someone is married and yet you decide to be with them you are the same piece of shit as them.

[whereismyjohnny]

exception**

[KrisPW]

Depends. The one who took the vows is always at fault. The homewrecker could be as well depending on what he / she has been told by the vow taker.

[Anonymous]

Equal. But ofc people won't agree with that. It's okay to wreck or steal someones man/woman but it's not okay to cheat.

[MysteriousDarkness]

The person in a relationship, the person who is engaged or married is worse chose to cheat which made the third party a home wrecker.

[TacosRAwesome]

Married person is worse, homewrecker is either equally bad or not so bad depending on situation.

[Anonymous]

To me it is worse knowingly hurting someone you love/loved recently, so the one who took vows.

[Anonymous]

Having been in the role of the home wrecker, pretending it’s the other person at fault doesn’t work. Both are equally bad.

[Flower7]

The married person is worse.

[Guy13]

Too bad… You’re stuck…no divorce.

[Iron_Man]

Homewrecker but also blame the guy or the girl

[jimmy2]

Home wrecker destroys many familes

[Kelly6]

Home wrecker

[SignedAutographs]

They're equally bad