Are there any girls still left out there that get nervous around guys and want to be attractive and impress them?

[MCheetah]

Seems like most women in modern society either:
1. treat men like utter sh*t,
2. hate all men everywhere (feminists),
3. treat men like walking ATMs and pay-pigs,
or 4. just queer (gay, bi, lesbian, etc. All the same thing).

No, I'm NOT hating on women or anything; just being honest.
Are there still any women who hold men in high regard and want to impress them and being a good woman for them (and themselves)?

Like this song they constantly play at the gym all the time for all the ladies.

(It's 3am and I'm kinda sleepy, at the moment.)

[SweedyPie]

Yes there are. Here I am. However the songs I use to induce his super sweet smiles are a bit different. I'll begin to send some. Cuz it's really too much to post here. I send him songs all the time and when we're together I can't help it. I always tell him I've never been so absolutely smitten with someone in my life lol

https://www.youtube.com/embed/gR8heaifQ_4https://www.youtube.com/embed/wVzvXW9bo5Uhttps://www.youtube.com/embed/zNcsCkXwXXMhttps://www.youtube.com/embed/JWsfL2eI5ns

But then you know, my mind being heavily in the gutter hahahaha I send him the xrated songs too

https://www.youtube.com/embed/Aybozn0iI4shttps://www.youtube.com/embed/vRNhThZoLjc

Then there are songs that just make me smile for hours thinking about him lmao

https://www.youtube.com/embed/cvt2keeBvMQhttps://www.youtube.com/embed/wkY9Pj8gCZ4https://www.youtube.com/embed/7TJ_wKYqz54https://www.youtube.com/embed/eU80eyfl-ao

It's a lot but this only scratches the surface. I want to spoil him rotten and make him not have to work so hard and see him happy, see him achieve his goals. Sigh. Although the possiblity is tiny, even if in time we decide to split I'm still going to be his number one supporter.

[SweedyPie]

https://www.youtube.com/embed/vRNhThZoLjc

https://www.youtube.com/embed/cvt2keeBvMQ

https://www.youtube.com/embed/wkY9Pj8gCZ4

https://www.youtube.com/embed/7TJ_wKYqz54

https://www.youtube.com/embed/eU80eyfl-ao

[SweedyPie]

Thank you

[Lucy68]

I am really nervous around guys, and whenever I do meet a guy I try to dress really nice when meeting them for the first time to make a really good first impression. That includes light makeup but making sure my hair looks nice as well

[MCheetah]

One day, I have to learn, what is your catch?
Like, the flaw or red flag about you.
Are you a man? Are you insane? Are you limbless?
You got to have some kind of flaw or negative about you.

[Lucy68]

I'm a female and I'm sorry I don't understand the catch part my apologies

[MCheetah]

I'm saying, you come off like a good, sane woman. So I'm jokingly asking, what's the negative part of you.

[Lucy68]

I can be a be a little too affectionate and sometimes clingy in relationships.

[MCheetah]

Those aren't negatives! 😂

[Lucy68]

I was told they were by both men and women. Thank you

[Allie2468]

I think you have to look at girls who may not initially stand out to you. Ex: the girls who may not be the prettiest or might have more quirks. I know I’ve always been overlooked even though I’m not bad looking, I don’t think guys generally pay much attention to me because they think they can “do better” even though they might be setting their standards too high. (Just my own opinion on the matter)

[MCheetah]

I think lots of guys aren't just looking for model-type girls.

[Allie2468]

Not all do, however from my experience you always get a few here and there that do. Especially around my age when guys are looking for the “best” of the bunch even if the “best looking” don’t have personalities. Thanks for the like ❤️

[TheSpaceGnome]

I have mixed feelings about girls trying to impress me, I hate ego, but I love watching talent and skill, and I think I'd rather be passively impressed, as in she impressed me without trying by just being herself, because I'd be too worried that a girl who wants to impress me, would be willing to present a fake version of herself to do so, whereas a girl who doesn't care about impressing anyone, but is talented and skilled and smart and loving and kind, is going to just be herself while being impressive.

[HighlyVolatile]

In Japan, girls will actually deliberately act like they're stupid and drunk in order to attract guys. :-D I hate it because I can see through it clearly but I think I'd like it if I couldn't.

But that's a common way here like girls pretending to fall down, trip, things like that, act drunker than they are in front of a guy they like, to attract them. It's kind of like a perverted twist on the woman dropping her hankie in the Victorian era.

[LovingLoverReturned]

But I love the differences... life is not boring 🤭

[TheSpaceGnome]

I'm not entirely sure I'd fault a girl for doing some of those things, I don't like drunk girls, or alcohol in genreral, so acting drunk is definitely a turn off.

But if she pretended to trip just to fall on me or bump into me in that way (and yes its obvious), then thats just going to be seen as her being willing to ditch her own ego just to get my attention (because in public thats just asking for people to make fun of you), and thats actually attractive because I hate ego, though not attractive enough by itself to warrant dating, I wouldn't sit there deducting points over it.

Personsally, the only "stupid" thing I find really attractive is when women get a case of extremes giggles and act ridiculous and start spewing silly nonsense and laughing at everything.

[HawkPerception]

I genuinely agree with all those descriptions of the types of women out there. I will also add "The bad boy lover that constantly gets cheated on because she's only attracted to those types, then cries about it later".

[MCheetah]

I would fit them into option A:
"They treat MOST men like utter sh*t until they hit their mid 30s; then want to settle down with the Good Guy once Chad is done with them."

[Berethor]

It's extremely hard to find a girl who is not one of the 4 types that you described.

[hanony]

yes! its just not easy cause now everybody has a type and bypasses personality.

[LovingLoverReturned]

Yes lol. If the guy is attractive (personality and or looks). If he is unattractive I don't treat him like shit but I am not as shy.

[moonpie89]

Baby , I still get butterflies

[_deeznuts]

ofc, isn't that a major part of having a crush

[JosyJosy]

Plenty.