Do you agree with Kevin Samuel words of women who are 35 and unmarried? (Page 2)

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“If you have made it to 35 and you are unmarried, you are a leftover woman,” Samuels said on his podcast last month. “You are what is left. Men know that there is likely something wrong with you. Whether you want to hear it or not, I’m going to go there with you. I’m telling you the truth that you don’t want to hear. Men know that there is likely something wrong with you—that you can not be an adjustable six or higher—something is wrong with you. That’s where men automatically come with it. And here’s the thing—when you were between the ages of 22 and 25 and you didn’t want to settle—you were trying to get the CEO, the pilot, the investment banker, you were trying to get flewed out…” He continued: “Here’s what’s going to happen. If you are a woman 35 plus and you want a man that’s on the same lifestyle level, you’re going to have to share him.” Samuels then asked a woman, “What do you think about sharing a man?” to which she responded, “I’m OK with that, because, if they’re going to mess around with other females, I’m going to do what I want to do too.” Samuels responded: “No, no, that’s not how that works—you share your man and sit your ass down.”

ODC2112 · Answer

Well I tried to watch some video of the dead guy. Maybe you don't like her tones, but the gist is after 35 you are no longer the woman you were before or you change your expectations and adapt to the market so you no longer select as before or you remain single. The men who previously would have courted you will now no longer consider you, having lost your market value. Then here the capon army will say the opposite.

jasco · Answer

I feel like their are different types of 35 year old woman. Their are a lot who are great at that age, than of course their are ones who are pieces of shit. So I feel like for the ones who are, he's right but to me from what I have seen its not a vast majority

SnakeBoop · Answer

ah, the incel troll who has to post about how women are awful/hit a wall etc etc to feel better.
it doesn't seem to be working for you, mayhap I can suggest therapy for your issues?
Congratulations on a troll of the day award

Anonymous · Answer

I was with him right up to the point he said she has to share the man.
Yes, women are less desirable after 40, sometimes 30. But a woman should never settle for sharing a man. Nor a man a woman. But one of the reasons older women has less value is because the older a woman gets, and the more relationships she's had the less capable she is of committing to a man. Any experienced guy knows this. Dating an older woman is akin to paying full price for a used car. You just don't do it!

Anonymous · Answer

Those words are harsh, but the fact is they are true in most cases. If you think about all the things that could lead to a woman still being single at age 35, from a man's perspective the odds are that there is something "wrong" with her, whether it be her life priorities or something about her that makes her less desirable to men. Of course it's not always true, but as Samuel said, it's "likely".

Snsl153 · Answer

You know what: I'm GLAD this guy is gone! I didn't know who he was when I first heard of his death here on GAG, but the more I find out about him, the more I hate him. What an absolute pig.

StevieBlunder · Answer

As a guy in his early 40s, I can attest that it's very difficult getting a date with a woman who is past 35, who has never been married (but I'm sure it applies to guys who have never been married after a certain age). In my experience, they're often very guarded and cautious, though they can get deeply infatuated and twitterpated, and often push people away without ever getting close. It's likely they have something going on like fearful avoidant attachment or borderline personality disorder.

Uptowngirl88 · Answer

Like @mzash said its a scare tactic because us women don't care about them nor need them. Men are the ones who are needy, clingy, and dying for attention. Get it dying didn't he fall out dead? Yep died a single , lonely, 3x divorced man. 🥱

exitseven · Answer

A lot of women put off getting married to concentrate on their careers. I imagine it is true in some circumstances but there are other reasons people defer getting married. They may have had a long engagement and suddenly it went sour.

eblehe · Answer

They don't care about what he thinks. can't listen to every mad dog that comes barking at you.

jimmy2 · Answer

He don't even know what the hell he even talking about. I would much rather a 35 year old. She would be more settle in life and be more for family. If he think a 35 is washed up he needs to be in prison

JustinTheGreat · Answer

This is the same dude who had two failed marriages that both lasted under 3 years lol

MatteBlaxk · Answer

Nah. You ladies above 35 will be fine. Don't listen to this bullshit. I feel like he's only talking for guys like "him".

Fireguy17 · Answer

No not at all. They may have had other goals in life that were more important to them than getting married and have a family.

IveGotNoName · Answer

So this is assuming that ALL women want to get married I guess.

Anonymous · Answer

Probably with the point he was trying to get to; but he just kept rambling on and getting distracted. YouTubers seem to have trouble getting to the point.

DWornock · Answer

They are 15 years past their prime and have very little value. In China at age 27 they are considered left over women.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

I've never thought that being single at 35 meant something is wrong with a woman, that dude is delusional.

XXblack88 · Answer

No I don't think woman 35 + are leftover if there not married

loveslongnails · Answer

Women over 35 who wanted to get married but couldn't, or didn't, are usually either too picky or too undesirable. However, the same is true of men!

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