How can I get him to stop grabbing me?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend is the most loving kind amazing man in the world and I love him so much but today is my 20th birthday and I have been with family all day when he has been here and he his been very grabby I was raped when I was younger and he knows that but he have been very grabby and it's upsetting me and my family

[Andres77]

I'm sorry that happened to you.
Just because he's your boyfriend doesn't mean he has any right to touch you in any way that you do not want.
Call him out in front of your family. Embarrass him and make it clear that it is not acceptable.
And your family should back you up.

[caring__1]

Let him know every time he grabs you without your consent, this will result in him not being allowed to touch you at all for a week, and if he works up to a month with no contact, you'll end the relationship for good, as you're not interested in a selfish partner who isn't respectful of your boundaries. Without consequences, we tend to continue our familiar patterns. I don't care how much you love him, this behavior is unacceptable.

[Bubbles45]

Simply just let him know to ease off on it, I'll let him know that you appreciate the gesture nonetheless but a little bit less of it would be perfectly fine.

As long as you keep a cold level head about it he should refrain from doing it as much. 😊

[Chiarac2003]

Tell him please. Discuss it with him. You cannot!! Feel like ur being harassed… even if tho he probably isn’t. You feel that way and that’s what matters. Talk to him please!

[Adventurous97]

Kick him in the balls as hard as you possibly can! That should get the message across.

[ChrisMaster69]

Just be clear and firm

take aside and tell him to stop, he may not actually realise.

Be firm but polite with him.

[Anonymous]

Love all the violent suggestions…NOT. You fucking crazy fuckers! Don’t attack him in any way. Just tell him if he can go the whole night without grabbing you you’ll wake him up with a BJ the next day

[Anonymous]

Have you tried busting a beer bottle over his head?

[gabby100]

Tell him to back off..

[sensible27]

Tellll himmmm

[Anonymous]

Squeeze his balls, tightly.

[Razp_Sorbet]

Also him to stop?