Need advice badly?

[UnknownE]

I’m not gonna lie I hate my life. Ever since my ex cheated on my 3 times. And I left I’ve been financially unstable. I got multiple loans for her and thought we were going to start a life together and wasted my time money and credit on her. I’ve been struggling ever since to keep a job and be financially stable again. All I want a normal life. Is it bad that if I had the chance to do a fresh restart in my life but I had to sacrifice myself right now I would do it? Not looking for sympathy or anything. This post isn’t for clout whatsoever ever!

[TheLoneTerran]

I've not been in that exact situation, but I've been in crisis mode for long stretches of time. You should see a psychologist to help you work through what happened/is happening, a psychiatrist to check on the medical aspect of your mental health, and a financial planner. This question is far too large for internet strangers.

Check with your state, even my deeply Republican state has socialized healthcare that covers dentist and mental health and I needed it badly there for a while. It's going to suck, and probably hurt, but you can make it through. It just seems really hard and really easy for someone like me to say over the internet. But I've taken my own advice and it helped me immensely, so that's why I offer it to you.

[exitseven]

Try to get out from under those loans. Either get her to pay you back or take her to court. Play some hardball with her if you have to. Find a career that pays well. Find a new girlfriend.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎