Are you okay with dating men who are wanting to have a vasectomy done?

[Anonymous]

[SueShe]

I am not interested in dating nor am I interested in fornicating or copulating and therefore, it does not really matter to me whether those men want to have a vasectomy or already had one performed.

I would think however that those women that are looking for one night stands and just plain sexual adventure would rather prefer a partner that did have a vasectomy performed as the fear of unwanted pregnancy is one less burden to worry about. Remains the fear of STD/STI and that fear remains despite a vasectomy.

But if I was the kind of person that does not mind getting venereal diseases, then a man that had a vasectomy would still be better than one that had none performed.

[Asker]

I don't want to impregnate anyone as I just only want to receive orgasms and help keep me calm. I will not regret having a vasectomy done since I am pro-choice. By the way, I am autistic and high functioning. ☺

[SueShe]

A vasectomy is a final solution with little to no chance of reversing the procedure. You better be 100% certain that you make the right choice before getting the OP.

Also, I could not tell you whether orgasms keep you calm or not. This is something that you must experience yourself.

I am sorry to hear that you are autistic and wish you well in your endeavors.

[Asker]

Like I said, I will not regret it as I understand that it is permanent and that I am fine with it.

[PrettyPriya]

@SueShe Just so you know, that tag that you will see is our "vagina sensation" troll. I froze and removed his first question. I think he tagged for two reasons. One, to see if we would respond so he knew who was active. Two, to make sure he got the account names correct to block (which promptly happened).

It was too late though. I had some inside help from a very kind user. He/she will remain nameless as she is now my eyes to find him.

[PrettyPriya]

Just as I hit send, I realized I gave away gender of my spy. Oh well, not sure this troll is smart enough to figure that out, let alone evade the right person. 🙂

[Asker]

I am not a troll nor a bot. I am a pro-choice, autistic individual as I am a strong supporter of women's rights. ☺

[PrettyPriya]

My apologies, asker, I'm not calling you a troll at all. It was in regards to another well known troll on this site. I just used SueShe's thread here to alert her to the problem as she is going to see the tag the troll used to block her.

[Asker]

Are you pro-choice? 😶

[SueShe]

@PrettyPriya Thanks for the feed-back. I guess that some people have nothing better to do in life than to troll and spam. Keep your spy well protected. We need him/her.

[mandyfire98]

I'm definitely okay with this as I am not interested in children at this moment.

[PrettyPriya]

Personally, no I would not be interested in someone that had that procedure done. There is only one reason. I want to have children in the very near future.

If I didn’t want that, I’d have no problem with dating someone that had a vasectomy. That is a personal choice. It has nothing to do (in my opinion) of character, personality or otherwise.

I place a great deal on starting a family though. So, it would not be an option for me.

[Asker]

Would you accept him if he had it done and find another method of starting a family?

[PrettyPriya]

Absolutely. Having that procedure done is a personal choice, as mentioned. It has little to do with whether I will date someone or not. If that means I am madly in love with him and all options of conceiving a child naturally is off the table, I would be open to other ways.

There is always adoption and there are far too many children that need a good home and loving parents. I don't know yet, as I have not yet tried to get pregnant, but if I cannot, I will be looking to adopt.

[Asker]

There are also sperm donations and surrogates.

[PrettyPriya]

Yep, there are options out there. I am engaged and will marry at the end of the year. Shortly after, I would like to start a family. Neither one of us know at this point whether it is possible.

He may not be able to for some medical reason. Same goes for me. I think what I'm saying to the point of your question is that it won't much matter if he (or I) cannot have children. I love him and there are other ways, as we have discussed.

[Anonymous]

I really, really, really want to have kids and I'm getting towards the end of my ability to have them, so that would actually be a huge dealbreaker for me.

[Anonymous]

Nope. I want to have a family.

[Asker]

Would you like to make your own kids through IVF?

[UpdateGloomyNights_]

Nope