No, he shouldn't just because she wants him to.
Just like a wife should not have to get any level of hysterectomy or tubal ligation just because he wants her to.
A marriage should be a partnership with common goals and values.
If they both determine that they want no more children then they need to come to an agreement about birth control.
My wife started using the implanon (in the arm hormone slow release device). She started to gain weight. Then she opted for the copper IUD. Effective but cramps are extra intense and she bled much more heavily.
I went to get a vasectomy.
Our escalation of options was least invasive to more invasive. I didn't want her to hit 40 years old and already be struggling with her weight. Watching her double over in pain from cramps, like never before, I couldn't let her deal with that until menopause. So I got snipped.
A guy that sees his wife's suffering and does nothing is an asshole in my opinion but it's not my call. It should be made as a partnership.
I don't see why one wouldn't. If your married and committed you will be with them as you say until death does you apart then what's the point in them needing to take the pill or be on condom forever until your old and grey. And if you already have kids that's enough already.
Well, does that partner think they want more children?
Does that partner have a reason for not being on board?
It shouldn't be a unilateral thing. It has to be talked about. But a big enough difference in opinion (e. g. mother doesn't want any more children, but husband does and insists on reproduction over adoption), it can lead to separation.
Basically, have a plan with your partner BEFORE you consider children or marriage.
No only if he wants to then a man should get it. I know my husband doesn't want it so I'm just gonna get my tubes removed when we are done having kids.
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A woman can get a mastectomy if her husband refuses a vasectomy
Neutering a man is actually more about a pre-caution to not get pregnant. It's often an attempt of control and to test a man's resillience. To get him neutered means he would be submissive. And this is exactly why I would be against it. What's funny is that this is often brought up by women who actually inheritely do not respect their man as much as they think they do.
No. But I also disagree with society putting pressure on women when it comes to birth control.
I mean, a woman can only get pregnant once a year (maybe twice if she's fertile and have good timing), but a man can impregnate countless women in a year.
No but he should sit down with her and talk and discuss the situation. Like what´s the problem between them and what solutions are possible alternatives.
I think that he should listen to her and work on possible compromises.
I totally agree. The wives shouldn't be mad at what the husbands want to do with their own bodies because THEY are the ones who have to deal with all of the after effects, not the wives.
No. He should want it too.
Me and my OH have had 2 kids in past 2 years, we're both in our 40's. We both have realised we don't want more kids, so I have been looking at getting it done. Was all booked up till Covid meant staff shortages.
I have a vasectomy and my wife had her tubes tied. We both don’t want kids and are an extremely sexual couple. So it great because we don’t have to use condoms and she doesn’t have to worry about using birth control and we can just fuck like rabbits without a single worry about her getting pregnant.
I don't get it. I didn't have to be talked into mine at all. I was all for it after our son was born.
I will never have a vasectomy. A real man doesn't do such stupid things, not even on orders from his wife. The vasectomy thing is feminist stupidity, men don't get pregnant, so he would be better than women who tie their tubes.
It would be my husband's choice alone, if he wished to have this procedure.
No. It should be something both want.
It's his body, and his decision
Wife: I'd like you to have your balls cut off now that I'm done with them.
Husband: Fuck off lol.
Let me put this in a funny way.
His Cock his choice 🤣
It’s up to the individual, my body my choice. Personally I probably would.
I can see their desire for one. It’s perfect birth control.
It’s his choice only.
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