Help me I’m lost and stressed?

[Raphtaila]

I’m confused, me and my now fiancé been together for almost a year next month, now he saying to me hurtful things, he says to make we should take some time off. Yesterday he wanted to break up for because he can’t handle the fact that I have a past, I just don’t get it things will be great then bam 💥 this happens I’m hurt and confused I don’t know what to do. In my opinion you don’t propose to someone and then tell them their a horrible person I’m lost

[TommyMountainFigure]

Well of course you're lost. You believed in someone you thought loved and cared about you. Only to find out he is a manipulative jerk who has no respect for you.
My advice? If you want to find your way again, get away from him. He is no good to you.
The bottom line is, if you love someone then you accept their past too. If you can't then you don't love them enough!

[TommyMountainFigure]

I also want to apologise for my apparent lack of compassion in my answer. People like your fiance need a rocket up their arse, because they simply cannot appreciate what they have until they lose it!

[Raphtaila]

My mom and best friends all say I deserve better I’m just so confused, one miner he’s the sweetest kindest person and the next he’s rude and a jerk and doesn’t care a inch

[TommyMountainFigure]

I have this rule about people. Of course you will see them at their best and their worst, but I judge them by their worst!
You cannot live your life with someone when you don't know from one day to the next what version of them you are going to find. It will send you round the bend eventually.

[Raphtaila]

Well I left before and went up north he couldn’t get ahold of me while drove him mad, he realized he needs me so I came back, and I guess now I’m not enough sigh

[TommyMountainFigure]

I'm with your mum and best friends on this. Try and look at it this way. Know when to cut your losses and run. If you stay with this guy your whole life, that's at least 50 or more years together. If you leave, you've lost and wasted just ONE!
If I were you? I would say to him. "I will treasure the good times we've had, but my past will never change, and the reason I am who I am is BECAUSE of my past. I like who I am and I refuse to change for you or anyone else.. So it is right we should part.. Good bye sweetheart (Or whatever you call him) And leave just like that. No animosity, no aggression. Show him what he has REALLY lost. You'll get over it in time, but he never will if you do exactly what i said.

[Mafia24]

You're in deep pain...
Surely you don't deserve this ma'am.

[Mafia24]

Thanks love 😘