My boyfriend's sister likes his ex better than me?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I are dating for over a year now, but we were best friends for years before we started dating. The problem is his sister always makes me feel that she like the ex better...and a huger problem is that the ex still wants my boyfriend and doing everything she can so just she can be close to my boyfriend again...I'm so sad..I've been doing the best to reach out his sister.

[Vasillilaw]

If the family doesn't want you...it's hard to change their mind. Our family pretty much kicked my brother's girlfriend out of his life because we didn't like her. She was really blunt and said things that sounded really rude. She says she never meant it like that and that she doesn't have anything against any of our family, but it's difficult to trust a person like that or want to be around them when they say hurtful things for no reason. You're probably not a bad person, but unless your boyfriend's sister starts liking you...I can't garuntee the relationship will be to great. ):

[Anonymous]

as long as you know he's yours and you know he loves you, don't worry. you shouldn't have to worry. you were bffs before you were a couple. that should show enough in it self.

[Asker]

thank you :) he keeps on telling me that he doesn't like her anymore...but I can't help but feel jealous at times. his sister keeps on doing things to make them together again. I do not understand them (the sister and the ex). I'm not doing anything wrong to them I wish they respect our relationship.

[Opinion Owner]

i understand the difficulty in wanting the sisters blessing. if the sister and the ex are so close why don't they just become friends and leave it at that. they shouldn't meddle in someones relationship that has NOTHING to do with them. you're going to have to just shut them out. you're boyfriend/best friends sounds willing to do so. you just need to catch up.

[Anonymous]

My ex girlfriend and her brother are codependent. He rips me apart and she laughs about it. It eventually destroyed our relationship.