What do I do? What can I do?

[Anonymous]

Im a guy and i first really really liked this one girl from gaming so much and she know that i liked her so i said i love you then she said i love you to but as a friend it kind of broke my heart so i said fine friends i guess then latter on about 2 or 6 weeks latter i found out she got a boyfriend and i hear them both in a chat room do to gaming he was talking lovely dovey and she was giggle but it made me feel sick at my stomach what do I do in this situation

[Nawlins34]

Let's break down your post.

"she know that i liked her so i said i love you then she said i love you to but as a friend" -

Stop right here; She did you a favor, because in the grand scheme of things, we can't replace time. So her telling you this right then and there was to your benefit.

1.) She respects you enough not to waste your time and let you live in a gray area.
2.) She's setting boundaries and defending her relationship. If you were her boyfriend, you'd be happy because she did EXACTLY what's she's suppose to do.

Let's continue
"it kind of broke my heart so i said fine friends i guess" - You don't even want this.

Okay, What to do?
Leave her alone. You don't really care about her the way you think you do. If you truly care about someone, you want the best for them, even if the best isn't YOU.

You've confirmed "in your own post" you'd be a shitty friend, because that was never the goal for you. You can't stand to see her happy with another guy.

- The good news is you don't have to stay because the moment she said that was the moment you started wasting your own time. Whether she had a man or not is irrelevant - she told you your ceiling with her. She didn't say "because I have a boyfriend" - read carefully. She said "as a friend".

Leave her alone and stop giving her access to you. Now you will see how much you meant to her. Because if you were worth anything (as a friend), she'll contact you and ask why you're quiet.

Tell her the truth - You wanted more than a friendship and since you're not getting that, the friendship isn't worth it. Her response will be how she truly feels.

If she never reaches out? - that's a response.

Meanwhile? Heal. that was a shock to your system. Don't suppress that, heal and process your emotions and when you're ready. Find something better to do.

I hope I gave some valuable insight here, be safe and good luck.

[Asker]

Ok but i still dont like this guy he threatened me in the game but he said in real life so if you did that to me how can I be so sure that this guy is actually a good guy for her because pacifically I don't like him

[Nawlins34]

1.) It's not your responsibility to determine if he's a good guy or not; It's HER guy. If that wasn't enough for her to break up with him and she knows of it? That's an indication of how much she values a friendship with you.

2.) If you're not going to take legal action on his threats or raise awareness to the admin around the game, drop it. We can certainly say he's immature, but the relationship with him, indicates she's fine with it.

3.) If he were a nice guy, I don't think you'd like him.

4.) You're making my point as to why you can't be a true friend. You're not neutral so if she ever came to you with issues in that relationship, you're not going to vouch for him because you want her.

[TommyMountainFigure]

You have to learn the difference between wanting inanimate objects and people. An object if you want it, you can just go out and buy it, but with people it doesn't work that way. They have to want you as well!

[Guy13]

Man-up…say what you mean and mean what you say. Next time…

[Iron_Man]

Come on dude you can’t fall in love with somebody on the Internet within two weeks

[In_Trance]

Get off the internet for a while