So my wife whom I was with for 22 years and I split up and unfortunately we only have one car that we both paid for but her name on title, we were working at the same place but she quit and does nothing now but I still work there and she lives with her boyfriend a month after the break up, anyway I depend on the one car we have and my job because it supports me and the kid we have and her to actually I don't know why her probably because I'm to nice.
Anyway I have missed several days and late all the time because she is not responsible, and so one day she said the boyfriend wouldn't give her the keys and another day she said he wouldn't let her answer the phone and this last time they didn't they up to let me use the car at all but said on the way for 2 hours. So since this is my car to what should I do because I was thinking about saying I need to use it like normal and then just not coming back, I also thought about just taking it out and setting it on fire.
So it wouldn't be so bad if she would share it and since she does nothing I should be able to use it too get to work but about to lose my job and the only way of supporting the kid and myself. She has blackmailed me and threatened to call the cops and is heartless about it all and blames her boyfriend for all the negative issues but she can't own her own mistakes so I don't know if she lying or not.
Also I left her but then when calmed down over stupid fights that I don't even know what they were about I tried getting back together but she says no... in the meantime I tell her I can't get over her when she comes over and hangs out all the time and she started coming over more, then she says shit like " I want to be with you but we fight" and I'm just tired of everything and any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Anyway I have missed several days and late all the time because she is not responsible, and so one day she said the boyfriend wouldn't give her the keys and another day she said he wouldn't let her answer the phone and this last time they didn't they up to let me use the car at all but said on the way for 2 hours. So since this is my car to what should I do because I was thinking about saying I need to use it like normal and then just not coming back, I also thought about just taking it out and setting it on fire.
So it wouldn't be so bad if she would share it and since she does nothing I should be able to use it too get to work but about to lose my job and the only way of supporting the kid and myself. She has blackmailed me and threatened to call the cops and is heartless about it all and blames her boyfriend for all the negative issues but she can't own her own mistakes so I don't know if she lying or not.
Also I left her but then when calmed down over stupid fights that I don't even know what they were about I tried getting back together but she says no... in the meantime I tell her I can't get over her when she comes over and hangs out all the time and she started coming over more, then she says shit like " I want to be with you but we fight" and I'm just tired of everything and any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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It sounds like she tried the grass is greener thing and discovered it was not. And if you can chill, prefers you 🤷🏻♂️
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