Hey so just for context we’ve been together close to 5years now, he wants to start working out which I totally support! But I wanted to start working out as well I struggle to self motivate but I have a fear of the gym and going alone last time I went was 7years ago and was horrified of all the old creeps starting at me when I was a child!! So i asked if we could go together you know start improving ourselves as a team obvious i wouldn’t Hoover and I’d just do my thing while he does his and that way if anyone starts to get creepy I can run to my boyfriend but he said no way. Why? I thought couples worked out together grew together he also doesn’t wanna take me with him to church anymore with him. We went every Sunday for 3 weeks then he stopped he told me he hadn’t been going and then turns out he has been going just sometimes and he told me. I asked him why he doesn’t wanna take me with anymore as I enjoyed it and he said I didn’t seem interested. Every Sunday since I’ve been getting up early getting ready and asking him if we can go to church today he just doesn’t say anything. I feel like it’s messed up he doesn’t wanna bring me to church I thought he’d be eggar to help me learn more and be surrounded by like minded people. What the heck is going on?
Boyfriend doesn’t wanna go to the gym or to church anymore with me?
