Why is my boyfriend allowed to get angry and constantly say mean stuff, but if I do it back it's the end of the world?

[Anonymous]

[DARKCLOUD1945X]

Spoiled brat tell him if he does not stop and grow up you will do the growing up and leave. Believe me it will never get any better only worse. He will say oh but I love while rolling you into the emergency room a bloody pulp Rethink if it is really worth it

[FunkyMonkee]

Sounds like my life story! Everybody else is allowed to say or do whatever the fuck they want to me but if I do ANYTHING back to them, I'M the bad guy!!

[Emilyis]

You need another boyfriend. You don't need to take that crap.

[Anonymous]

Because you tolerate it. We teach people how to treat us.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Because up until now, you've allowed it. The parameters of the relationship are set usually within a few months. If you don't like them.. change them.

[Cherry234]

That's a double standard. If he expects you to treat him with respect then he should be doing the same to you. Talk to him about how you feel.

[OlderAndWiser]

Who ALLOWS him to do t?

[Anonymous]

Because you allow it.

It ends when you leave.

[fred_durst]

because u allow him?
i dont think u can change anything , just dump him and get your sanity back

[Anonymous]

You're enabling his behavior by tolerating it. Find a new guy and make sure you don't repeat the same mistake early on in the relationship.

[Guy13]

It sounds like you’re not happy?

[slatyb]

Why are you still with an abusive asshole?

[Freyke]

He's spoiled. Can't handle biting back.

[Andres77]

Because you let him.
Time to move on.

[Caunsos]

You in a toxic relationship get out

[Crankor]

Doesn't sound like he respects you much

[In_Trance]

Because that's dynamic you've created