What do you think of a career driven ambitious woman who finds relationships pointless?

[Anonymous]

[ohshee]

If I really like her you mean I would try to change her mind to be honest with you I absolutely love a girl that is driven it wants to succeed her goals in life I think that is a beautiful thing and it takes a lot of commitment is it the same time I would want to know why she doesn't have that passion that desire to feel that emotion that love that connection because when two energies connected is the most beautiful feeling in the world and I would just be curious why she doesn't want to feel that

[KrakenAttackin]

@ohshee. No. When someone tells you something that is core to who they are, you need to believe them. Don't waste time trying to change people.

[Lionman95]

I can understand her but if you say relationships are pointless than that closes the door to sex for me because sex is a part of relationship to me.
Therefore the only thing that could develop is a friendship.
If you can live with that we could give it a try.

[Asker]

thats cool

[Flower7]

It’s nice that she can buy her own stuff. I’m sure that brings her a lot of satisfaction. And relationships cause so much stress and drama, and sometimes even pain. She would be avoiding all that and living more peacefully.

[Anonymous]

I think that something happened to you in life that pushed you past being a realist and into being a pessimist but you might not see it yet because you're still probably an optimist about your career

[Asker]

i just realized that i have no one to rely on and must become strong. love made me too weak in the past. i realized that love was a waste for me.

[Opinion Owner]

You shouldn't give up on love. It's what will make you more successful than anyone. You weren't weak because you loved too much. You were weak because you expected too much from the wrong people. You sound like someone who has a lot of drive. I don't know you but I'm sure it's because you do things from the heart.

Love isn't a waste of time. It's what drives us to be more. It's not entirely your fault other people let you down. But it's important in life not to blame people for being who they are. Find their value because everyone is good for something.

[Reaper1985]

not typically someone I interact with so I don't really know to much.

[FilmGuy93]

What's to think? Trying to date her would be a waste of time. And usually women like that are needless combative, confrontational, and competitive. I don't need bullshit in my life.

[Anonymous]

Totally fine as it's her choice.
What makes her be this way though?

[Asker]

she realized that money and prestige is the only thing that matters. she realized that in the end she had no one but herself to rely on so she tried her best to become a strong person

[Jamie05rhs]

I don't think much of her at all. She is irrelevant to me.

[Philyouup]

Guess she good for a duck or two. just don’t get emotionally attached

[bamesjond0069]

Nothing. Since i dont associate with women like that. They aren't attractive for a relationship and sounds like she doesn't want a relationship so win win. Everyones happy.

[Asker]

physical appearance has nothing to do with being ambitious lol

[bamesjond0069]

What did i say that had to do with physical appearance?

[Anonymous]

I think that's her choice. There's no law that says you have to be with someone.

[Anonymous]

Whatever.

Mozambique here!

[Wise4myage]

I would think she's down for lots of casual sex.

[Asker]

whats your opinion of those who engage in casual sex?

[Wise4myage]

I think its fine in this situation, and I have no problem with casual sex overall.

[Asker]

you're cool

[Anonymous]

I say same pinch my friend ❤️

[KrakenAttackin]

I think she will regret her choices.

[Asker]

why do you think that?

[KrakenAttackin]

On your death bed you will not wish you had clocked more days at work or climbed further up the corporate ladder.

[Asker]

i really dont care if i live or die. I'm just reckless that way :)

[KrakenAttackin]

Asker. A family gives meaning to life beyond occupation.

[Asker]

I Know that. there was a time in my life when i desperately yearned to be loved by my 'family' but truth is i was literally abandoned by my family.. so i really have no one.

[KrakenAttackin]

Asker. I have been in exactly the same place. I meant your own kids.

[Asker]

i haven't thought of that much.. I don't know if I'll be a good mother. i dont think i can handle a relationship even because most of my relationships ended badly. it's a noble thing, taking care of a kid. but I don't know if it's for me.

[RandomGuy1030]

Its a normal thing taking care of a kid

[Asker]

@RandomGuy1030 not everyone is fit to be a parent.

[Guardian45]

I wish her luck.

[69chucj68u]

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