Help me heal from heartbreak?

[Anonymous]

Wholesome answers please. I can’t move on. It’s pain and grief and resentment and sadness all the time.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I feel you. I’ve been living with this feeling for a few months already.

The difference is that he’s still mine but also not mine, like before. We are LDR, on the verge of break up due to inability to meet.

I cried and cried and it couldn’t help.

Instead I started dancing, when I feel heartbroken, not loved enough, forgotten or so on.

I open a music and dance, slowly, enjoying every moment of it. It helps me to stay in the moment and get rid of the pain I feel.

Another one I do, when I notice I feel like a crybaby, and I can’t do it anymore, because I’ve spent all tears I had, now if I cry my eyes and body feels stressed so I can’t do it anymore, it doesn’t help me relax, so whenever I feel like crying, I turn “Santo&Johnny - Sleepwalk”, lay on bed and just relax, I just did it 10 minutes ago, breathe, stay in the moment, think of your worries as the fleeting emotions that will finally pass and think of yourself as the only human in your life who’s worth the best kind of love, not from others but from yourself in the first place.

Close your eyes and touch your face while listening the music, do you feel how alive you are? Go on and touch every part of yours and imagine how beautiful and alive you are, how lucky would any man or a woman would be just to be by your side right now.

And most importantly how lucky you are that you are here, alive, capable of feeling both pain and joy and that no one will care for us 10000 years later.

We’ve just got 1 day to live - today, don’t waste it on crying to someone else, doesn’t matter how much they mean to you.

Once my 82 years old late grandpa said “My child, you’ll lose so many loved ones in your lifetime, you should learn how to grieve short, because if you grieve too much, even the lifetime won’t be enough. Let it go.”

I am trying to think of it, even if I can’t meet him today, I am alive, he’s alive, life goes on and so should we.

There will be times when we’ll feel happiness again but you need to smile first, and keep loving yourself, because no one else is going to love you the way you can love yourself and in the end, we are all alone. You are no less alone than others. We are in this together. Everyone, each one of us.

Isn’t it wonderful regardless of all the pain you’ve felt your heart’s still beating? Our bodies and our hearts are created to withstand even worse pains.

Just remember, when this pain gets unbearable, open the music, close your eyes and dance.

[LazerBean]

Time heals. You can and will move on, just like everyone else in history has.

[SeekingVirginWife]

Watch this video, and find your future husband.

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