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Why don't male victims of female violence defend themselves when they are way stronger than their female intimate partners? (Page 2)
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Hello the ducking cop's always take them Women side 8 to 9 out of 10 time's so we as Men just take the beating's instead of going to jail.
God Bless
Because men will become the attacker and get charge for a crime they didn't do
They could claim self-defense, but the woman just say he came at me. Look how big he is compared to me.
Being a man I'm some ways is a screw job
I've been in a relationship where my girlfriend would fly off the handle and start hitting me. Woman are not by any means weaker than men. And a furious woman pump up with Adrenaline and hormones turns them in to rage monsters. basically they HULK out. And its a scary situation to be in
No one takes men seriously in that regard not cops, not courts, no one. and if a guy did defend himself well the woman would yell abuse and he gets sent to prison.
no matter what he does he’s basically fucked.
Women are a protected class. If an abused man were to do this or show any aggression or react in an angry way he'd be in trouble
Because if a women came up and sucker punched me and I knocked her out I would still be the one in trouble.
It's because there's a very good chance that the guy would be falsely labeled as the abuser.
While it was true that I was way stronger than my wife, I suffered from extremely poor self-esteem, and thought somehow I was deserving of what I was reaping from her, and if I just did things properly, the abuse would stop and she would love me.
Because even if we fight back, if there is even one mark on that woman, we are being locked up. It's a lose lose situation.
Because a lot of men are taught to not hit women it's as simple as that
I'm apart of the "a lot of men" group
I do.
I work in private security.
If a female initiates, I will treat her as I would treat a man.
Because woman always have the leverage when it comes to the law and society in general, unless there's strong proof that says otherwise
That’s easy question
We will automatically be the aggressor unless we have unquestionably evidence.
Still not worth the risk versus taking a couple of hits.
This is not always true. Maybe on TV it is. But cops most of the time deal with this stuff and can figure it out. People ALWAYS cry victim when arrested man or woman
Correct cops usually do get it right. I’m thinking more about what happens in the court room. Admittedly the courts have been getting better about not giving a woman that’s a abuser the benefit of the doubt, but there is a history and I’ve seen the devastation that can happen to a man even after they’ve been found Innocent and the women still not charged as the aggressor.
Not to mention how men usually get railroaded in the courts with divorce domestic abuse child custody etc.
And true this is not a normal thing but it happens hence me saying it’s not worth the risk. Seeing 15 friends or associates get divorced, charged, you name it and everything they have gone through I’m not willing to put myself in a situation where that’s a possibility.
Yea bad stuff happens. You should look up Soros and you will see how bad the courts are with corruption and stuff like that. But I understand what you are saying.
We do, it's called Sharia law. If wife commits adultery, the husband has the right to behead her. Inshallah ALLUAH ACCKBAR!!!
Why does your question raise so much of male martyrdom? Lol.
Because it is about male victms
Not just this one... All of them has the theme of poor unfortunate men
What do you mean by martyrdom?
@chris_987 she's usually siding up with men like they've been our slaves for centuries or something
Men where women's slaves? Naww it more like women needed men to survive so they got with the man's program. Neither where slaves. The woman got a man who was capable of feeding her and the man got a woman he could have a relationship with. Together they had a bunch of kids to make life easier for both of them. That was pretty much the male female dynamic for thousands of years.
@chris_987 Slavery isn't a part of picture. If it were the breadwinner would prolly be the master. Haven't you heard of patriarchy?
Patriarchy doesn't exist, women never wanted to be incharge of men. So for thousands of years women where looking for men that could make there life easier. They weren't ruled over by men.
So think of it like this, say me and you life a couple thousands years ago, we have about 10 kids and half of them are girls. Do you think we'd be good parents by telling our daughter to not find a good man that gonna take care of you? If we did that she'd be pregnant and homeless. So no the patriarchy doesn't exist because women weren't capable of running social due the fact that they needed men for survival.
@chris_987 rules are only for women. Women can't go out after dark because boys would harass her or something, but it's totally fine if boys stay out late — restrictions only exist for women. Hence the high rape rate.
Rules are there for women because men have authority over them. And if men have authority over them it means there responsible for them. If you have kids do you let them run wild? No because if something happens aren't you held responsible? It's not hard to grasp.
@chris_987 i won't have kids. I wanna breakfree. I don't need a one sided society.
A male would likely seen as thug for hitting a female even if it done in self-defence.
Because men are taught that because they ARE stronger that they shouldn't hit a woman. I say fuck that shit! If you put your hands on my I'm gonna slap the taste out ya mouth and that's real!
Because society has forced men to walk on egg shells.
Yeah women are a protected class, so the Burden of proof will always be on men. Children are a protected class too. So if they lie and say you abuse them be prepared to be seen as guilty until proven innocent.
I've seen a movie about it. The kid lied about it and the guy never got actual justice. It's pretty heartbreaking. Women abusing this infuriate me. But most of all society because they forget to use their head and think. They just jump to a conclusion. It's nit because I have done my hair and put make up on that I can't be a horrible human being to someone.
But everything makes sense once you realize women are a protected class. For thousands of years men have look at women as something to protect. The term "women and children" literally comes for the idea that men are expendable, and as long as you a man you duty is to protect the women and children. So we can't see women as equal to a man if society has treated them on the same level as children for thousands of years.
Girlsaskguys helped me learn about men's struggles more and I am making sure I don't treat my boyfriend like I am above him or taking advantage of him.
Well men need to struggle because the world isn't fair. Men that don't struggle become weak and the women will take advantage of them
If I can at least offer him a safe haven at the end of the day, I hope it's enough.
Yeah definitely
Except for Johny Depp's case, who will believe us, that we are the victim, not the aggressor?
Because he'll get arrested lol. He'll get thrown in jail. Duh.
Because in a police investigation of a physical altercation, the person with the larger body tends to get blamed more often than not.
Depends on the intensity of the violence. I'm not going to knock out a woman because she throws a hissy fit and tosses something at me.
Because HE will be the abuser then and the focus will be completely off of her and what's she's doing. He'll automatically become the "bad guy".
Because they'll get worse off if they hit the woman than to simply not do anything
It dont Hurt and when a male hits a female a male is always wrong and get problems
Fear of her, fear of going to jail for assault. In general its fear and control
Then you need to call and have her arrested if you don't fight back
I don't believe that anyone whose being abused wouldn't think of not doing that but mentally they are inable of realizing they are being abuse
That happens many times it is called Stockholm syndrome
because then HE would be going to jail, no one would believe him, ever since the movement "believe all women" Men are ALWAYS the abusers.
I won't because I'm usually so much larger and physically no one would believe
Mentally, no one cares
Why do u think? Bc the female would just call the cops and make the guy go to jail
I know a lot women that can tow the mark against any man and most do not weight more than 98 lbs
Because even defending yourself will land a man in jail.
Not always
It doesn't feel right to fight a woman. No matter the circumstances
Being a victim myself it takes a bigger no to hit back and Being controlled I was at a stage that I no longer knew who I was
Because hitting a woman, even in self defense , will make you the bad guy.
Because you never hit girls or hurt those you care about. EVER…..
More often than not girls tend to drug their victims.
Well if they have a gun or a weapon you can compete with that
Because we can easily be accused of assaulting a Woman.
I definitly do. If she does'nt quickly stop , ill then give her something to do.
Because the man will go to jail unless there are witnesses and he can prove he was in fear for his life. READ the fucking laws and you will know why.
Because he's going to be the one facing charges. It's fucked up
Because we were taught the court usually sides with the woman.
Because they don't want to go to jail.
Because they will usually go to jail
Because they’ll be sent to jail
Because it is a surprise attack using a weapon.
... you jokin' yeah? :)
Better to simply leave.
Learned helplessness?
Because we might want to have sex with it later.
Cause they are pussies.
We don't want to go to jail.
Then call on her. Many times they have to arrest if someone calls domestic abuse in so just call on her
@Whatever2929292 yes they arrest the man , in some places this is automatic. I'm honestly shocked done nen think they can can the police and get protection. That's laughable, a black man calling the KKK would get a better result.
@Slartybartfast wow yea
@Slartybartfast wow
They are fucked either way.
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Usually the woman has connections 👉👉👉
Because they are feminized wimps.
They have the whole world against then
Simple answer women have the LEVERAGE.
then they would not be victims !!!
Yeah I guess so, I mean that does make sense but it's kinda sad that's what guys have to go through
some of us would not hit a girl so it is very sad if it comes to that i just walk away but still love her.
Yeah I understand that
It's not physical strength they are lacking.
Raised as kids never put your hands on a girls