Ok so suppose that a woman is better able to defend me than I am, well that begs the question really because, sciency bit, women rarely ever look to match down they most often match up or marry up while men most often marry down. So women most often want to be with a man who is taller and in their mind more attractive than they are and somewhat most importantly more successful or at least as successful as they are.
This explains why you never see female doctors married to garbage collectors.
Contentious bit now, most but not all women but certainly most women want to partner with a man who they consider to be a man, and like it or not women choose who they pair with not men. Most women want to be with a man who at least physically appears as though he's capable of protecting himself and certainly protecting her now here's the jist of a woman then has to fight a man to protect her boyfriend then in her eyes he's most likely not going to be much of a man and most likely she would not be with him for very long.
Most women are smart enough to see when a man can protect himself or her because they watch how men move so it's most likely that she wouldn't be with him in the first place if at all for very long.
As an asside to this in countries where women are often the bread winner the divorce rate increases amoung couples because the women tend to view their husband as less of a man. And they have stated that they feel resentment to their husband because of that and it increases where the descision for the man to become the house husband was down to the wife.
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Well whatever you do dont grab his arms and try to hold him back when it goes down... And if he's getting his ass kicked make your shots count... dont go hammer fists on dudes back... it doesn't hurt... kick the guy in the face if your guy goes down with dude on top... or of you can get behind the other guy try your best to stick your finger in his eyes... i got into it once with a guy who I was 99.9% sure was gonna fuck me up bad and I stuck my thumb in his eye and it popped out... nothing takes the fight out of someone like when their eyeball is dangling half way down their facee
Unless she's a trained martial artist, is huge herself or fights with elements of surprises (a good shot from behind, an object, etc.), it's not really recommended.
If there was no other option and my boyfriend is getting beaten, then I'll try my best to diffuse the situation or get one good shot from behind. Otherwise, I'm creating a big commotion for others to help and calling the cops.
Honestly yes. I'm extremely protective of my loved ones and if I see them being hurt my natural instinct is to defend them. Its gotten me in trouble before. Nothing gets me more raved up for a fight than if I see someone hurting someone I love, I turn into a wild beast and attack, I can't help it at times I just have mother polar bear instincts.
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Only if he needs it. I am sure he can handle it but I am here anytime for him to defend him
Oh man... LADIES: for the love of Pete, STAY OUT OF IT. I’ve seen so many dudes get dropped because the girlfriend got in the middle of the fight. GET OUT OF THE WAY. If we want to fight, we’re going to fight, and there’s nothing you’re going to do that’s going to improve the situation. Stay back, PLEASE keep the shrieking to a bare minimum, and just let the boys pound it out. If I’m unconscious and you see me get kicked in the head or get defenselessly punched more than two times, fine, you can try to push the guy away. But you’re not going to stop or dissuade me. Let me go, let me win or lose as it goes, help me up if I lose, call me an ambulance if I lose bad, help me run from the cops if I win. Period. That’s all I need from you in that scenario.
No. Women can't fight as well as men can. I've trained boxing, muay thai, MMA. I've trained with women. When I moved from boxing to muay thai I was obviously inexperienced with kicks, knees, grappling etc. So in sparring the guys there could beat me easily.
Despite being much more experienced than me, older, and being slightly bigger than me at the time too since I was very small, the women couldn't. I had to hold back, the strength difference was too large. And those women were good fighters vs a small inexperienced guy at the time, never mind the average woman who has never trained vs an average guy. The idea of women being just as capable of fighting as men is a feminist fantasy.
So no, I'd expect my girlfriend to get herself to safety even if I was fighting a losing battle.To question herself if she should first ask herself if she can. I'm pretty weak, I can't do anything in a physical confrontation but to bite the dust. However if is everything happens quickly and there's not time to think if I should of I can my instinct would be to attack that someone who is threatening my SO.
Up to them, it does show what they are like in a physically combative situation when I'm engaged in a fight.
Of course context matters. For example, if it was a spar with another guy or girl, then she shouldn't join. If I was being assaulted by a girl out of nowhere, then I'd appreciate if my partner tried to stop the assailant.I'd say only if he was losing badly, mainly because guys have a lot of pride and it would hurt them to be saved by their partner especially since others would probably judge him for it. I mean it's dumb, like if I was dating Ronda Rousey and somone was beating on me it would hardly be humiliating for her to kick the guys ass if you think about it.
Only if her male partner looks like he needs it and my life won't be in danger. I have had this conversation with him before, and he said he would rather die or get badly hurt trying to save me rather than it happen to me.
It would strongly depend on the scenario. In the heat of the moment, I would probably run away and scream for help, get anyone I could find to help save him.Id more likely try to stop the fight, than continue it. If I join in there's a more likely chance of it not even helping and even vetting jumped. If I was there through the whole thing, id have him just walk away, but if things escalated, id more likely push them apart.
Unless your partner is getting seriously beaten up to the point he could get seriously injured... no.
I can also promise you no guy would ever want his girlfriend or wife to get inbetween. Personally i would rather get my ass beaten than risking getting my girlfriend involved.Well very simple.
If they're beating her male partner up and she feels that he's in danger of his life, she can just reason 2 things:
1. They will kill him and kill her since she has seen the face of the killer.
2. They will kill him and do whatever the f*ck they want with her.
3. If he dies... well... he doesn't have a male partner anymore.
In all 3 cases she should at least throw a stilletto at the guy beating her male partner or spray some mace on the other guy. Or whatever the heck a woman would do when she's cornered and threatened to get raped... that kind of creativity... she can use it to at least slow-down the other guy from killing his male partner.
That is... if he truly loves him.If needs be yes. Years ago men squared off and fought like for pride and honor but nowadays men &women don't care about that and will try and do actual bodily harm such as kicking a person to death or injuring.
https://youtu.be/qF3Z-kJJSqIYes. Social society has made us to believe that men are stronger and more powerful than women. In reality, this is not always true. If the girl in question is a strong, capable women, then she should always defend her partner. It’s dumb that society makes us think that men have to do all the fighting, and women are just there to look pretty
Well I would because my boyfriend had surgery recently and someone attacking him could have a devastating outcome so I would totally step in & punch the shit out of someone who was attacking him. Or I’d get in the way and protect him.
I'd hope anyone would defend any of their loved ones if they were being physically attacked and didn't have it under control.
What kind of coward do you have to be to just stand there and watch someone you supposedly care about get fucked up?Not if he started it or let himself be provoked over some minor bullshit (which is frankly why most bar fights break loose)?
If some dude just randomly attacked my partner I'd probably try to break it up yeahI am confident my girlfriend could kick the shit out of any one... probably even me if it came down to it. I rather she was on my side in a fight
I like a girl who is happy to get down and dirtyIf he's getting his ass beat... look, you can run and hopefully get away, or help your man. If he has that situation under control... you might just get in the way and that's not better.
Such a fucking violent society...
Hell no, unless it's a life or death
situation like a armed robbery and she's carrying a firearm.
Outside of that, hell nah, don't
be getting in no skirmishes your
little boy got himself into.no! my hubby told me if ever that happens i should save myself and runaway... he told men fight are meant for them... and he doesn’t want me to get hurt because of hin
Nah you should stand by and watch how he gets beaten down to the ground, because that's what is supposed to be done in a relationship. You watch your Love be in PAIN. Mhm. Yep. Makes sense.
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