Why people go for long distance relationship?

[Sam_25]

Because no one likes them in short distance? Is it true? ,😜

[Daniela1982]

Because they don't really want to meet anyone because it's easier to never have to talk to someone face to face, and because it is easier to hide all your flaws from a distance. If you really cared for someone you would want to be close to them so you could get together whenever you wanted, even to just go out for coffee. I'm thinking if you have something to hide, like you already have a boyfriend or girlfriend, you can easily do it from a distance. Advice from here is don't play dard ass with LDR. Get the real thing, up front and personal.

[Sam_25]

So ldr is just a scam? No?

[Daniela1982]

Not exactly a scam, more like using someone when you are not really interested in meeting. Like game playing.

[Sam_25]

Oh my... lol.
You're such a nice person 😘

[Smoke-n-Growls]

I gave it a shot because I genuinely felt a connection and he was going to move up anyways.

Eeeeeexcept he didn't do any of the work to move up and tried to immigrate illegally after telling me for a year that he had it all figured out.

So now I know never to try LDR again, lol.

[Sam_25]

😂😂 I tell you one scam about ldr. You will shock I bet. 😂

[Smoke-n-Growls]

For context, I'm from an immigrant family in Canada, 1st gen Canadian, and he was a white middle class American boy.

So take that scam and flip it.

[Smoke-n-Growls]

He thought he could just show up at the Canadian border with all his stuff and an expired ExpressEntry application and it was all good.

He'd been telling me for months that he was ready to move and had his paperwork in order, and had told me for years he really wanted to move to Canada.

The reality was he was so poor at managing his own time, chores, work, and just life in general that he completely fucked himself over. Either he was lazy, too depressed (he does have clinical depression which he's medicated for), and or too childish to do what needed to be done.

He left his job, left his apartment lease - both things needed to be considered "established" in the US according to Canada customs - and just threw his shit in a UHaul. Didn't even drive most of the way to the border, I did that.

He's lucky he wasn't given a year long Barred from Entry status.

[serious]

Not short distance. There is nothing called short distance relationship.

Yes people decided to try LDR's or long distance relationships when they did not get any success in real life or in their locality/area where they live.

LRD's don't last long.

[Better_off_here]

oh you have said it the best i know :)