Why do boys start off only wanting sex not wanting a committed relationship?

[Anonymous]

[Smoke-n-Growls]

I don't think that's all men, since men of quality will search for a connection and a life, not just sex.

But that said, I'd say it's an indication the boys after you aren't actually interested in a relationship. They just say they are so they can "unlock" sex.

Personally, my ex-fiancé kinda ended up sex crazed towards the end of our relationship. He thought all he needed was sex, but his inability to commit to actually working on himself, his work (he quit his job because he couldn't manage up and refused to get another job), and what he needed to do (whether that was cleaning, working out, making food, or filling out immigration paperwork).

If a boy only wants sex at the start, move on immediately unless you just wanna keep him as a friends with benefits.

Boys who only prioritize sex aren't ready for a serious, committed relationship. They need to do some more growing and self-reflection to become whole ass men with lives outside of their dicks.

Honestly, I have kinda given up on men under 35 or 40 having their shit together. All my men friends in my age group are a bit too immature still, but those in their 40s seem to have "settled down" a bit and are more in tune with who their are in their hearts versus what the head between their legs wants.

[AssholeNumberOne]

It's not only boys, m'love. I'm a girl, and I want the same thing

[SimpleGuy95]

The easy answer would be because they can.
Society has liberated sex from being an exclusive part of a relationship to what sometimes feel like not a big deal.
The more complex answer is that society, movies and sayings from other people make it look like a sex is an important part of a transition from a boy to a man.
That way many guys look for sex thinking it would them into a man. Another issue that many guys watch porn at least daily and therefore are strongly focused on sexual stuff so they want to figure out who they are through sex.
Some guy learn to love sex so much that they never want a committed relationship because the sexual attention is all they want.

[Turtlewax1994]

Some just arnet looking for a relationship, some can’t commit to relationships, some just want friends with benefits, there are multiple reasons but those are the main ones.

Mine please?
Doesn’t seem to be as interested as I thought? ↗

[Anonymous]

Well chances are good it's not starting off, but more that's all they're looking for period. But, we also "work" the opposite as you women do. You have to build the connection and work towards sex, with us, often the connection comes WITH sex for us (and over time). Not always, but happens a lot.

[Anonymous]

Turn on a t. v., open a magazine, get on social media.
If you do that and you still don't get why then grab a hammer and smack yourself in the head with it because you're a retard.🤣
The better question is why are so many young women choosing to start off having sex rather than a committed relationship now?

[FilmGuy93]

Sometimes it's just a lack of maturity. Other times, it's because we don't know how well we're going to vibe with the woman on an emotional level. All we know in the beginning is that we like what we see.

[DavidRaul]

Maybe you are just looking for the wrong men. If i want to have with a woman then she would be girlfriend and i would see her as my potential wife. Its that simple

[BeMuse]

Why would anyone want to commit to someone they don't know?

[Sam_25]

Because we have buffe of girls
Than why wasting time in commited relationship?

[sethtav]

Only want to get off and do not want a regular girlfriend.

[notwoke]

its not "start off" it's forever. We tolerate the other bullshit so we can get what we want.

[Backgroun]

The guys that "want" commited relationships get rejected by women, or played around with.

[ChrisMike1919]

Fortunately I'm not in that category.

[bi-standard]

because they're boys not men

[MrTaboo]

Because its so freely given today

[Asker]

Probably because men don't have to be accountable like women do but it is still not an excuse to do wrong to people.

[Anonymous]

They are just genetically defective in that way.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

They don’t sell propane and propane accessories

[WhiteBoyChill]

Key word is “boys” not men

[Anonymous]

Because they want to hit and quit it.