If I was in your situation, I wouldn't be worrying about ever finding love. I would create a bucket list of the most craziest and stupidest things to achieve in my lifetime. Things like going skydiving, conquering a phobia, travel to every country on the planet, go on a reality tv show, break a world record etc. Make loads of friends and enjoy life to the fullest extent possible. And you never know, love just might find you!
I think it's important to be optimistic, have hope for the future, try and surround yourself with loving and nurturing people, a man that really cares about you will love you no matter what, the sex thing is different for everybody, and I think experimenting when the time is right might help you figure out what you enjoy, and maybe somethings that don't work for you.
Yes. You will find love. Itās possible. And honestly prob will be easier to find true love because you will filter out the ones that were in it for wrong reasons. Other ways to enjoy sexual relationship. Anal, oral, and other sensitive body parts. People paralyzed from waist down can still have orgasms without being able to feel anything or have erections. Can be neck, breast, ears. Youāll find right person and right ways to have fun sexually
I'm so sorry you have to go through this, I'm certain that you'll find an amazing person who will love you just the way you are. I wish you the best of luck! 😊
Oh jesus, I'm sorry for your situation. It sounds harsh as hell.
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Thank you. It is š usually this cancer occurs in women who are 50+ years old. But that isnāt the case anymore as younger and younger women are getting it. Itās a lot to be going through but I am hopeful
Yes, I definitely think that you can still find love! Love is much more than just sex or genitals. I do think that it will narrow the field a bit but there are guys out there who will be ok with it!
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Itāll narrow it a whoooole lot š but I agree ā¤ļøā¤ļø
Itās definitely going to be harder than it would otherwise. But I donāt think itās going to be as bad as you might think. It may be cliche and corny, but your personality and who you are as a person is far more important.
There is much more to a relationship then sex. When you date for something more and you have something meaningful then when you marry a amazing man this kind of stuff won't matter anymore.
I think if a man is 100 percent committed and you know your the best you can be then that man will love you forever in one day so all the love you'll feel in a life time you'll get in a shorter life spans hell believe his best kind of true love will cure you
Whatās vulcetomy I didnāt search it up lol and ya if we were same age or whatever and I didnāt have my person rn hahahaha I would totally wanna be with u if 1) we were friends and hung out AND 2) if u have a good personality for me itās personality above all else 🤷āāļø
Oohh, I was thinking it was a throat or abdominal thing.. well to answer your question, uh, yeah. I mean, thereās always alternatives, and for the sake of being normal I suggest you choose carefully on which you selectā¦.
I am sure you will find a guy at least you don't have to worry about a husband leaving you get it done early there might be a guy that can't make love but wants to love and there is more to love then just sex
Everyone is different... blind women find husbands... 1-legged women find husbands, God has a plan for you, if they offer reconstructive surgery, get it, you will feel better about yourself... God Bless
Damn that sucks. Yeah I think you can find love. It is what it is, you can't do anything about it, the most important thing is to make yourself feel better.
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So sorry to hear thisā¦let me just say that western medicine is so surgery focused, many people have cured their cancers with thc oil and strict vegan whole food diet, cleanses, fasting, I would explore other options before you let them scare you into doing something irreversible
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Yeah I agree. But in my case surgery was my best option. It would only continue to spread throughout my body if I kept it. And the stage that it was in had it looking and feeling terrible. Iāve already had it done. It was causing me so much pain and it was accelerating and changing every week so no diet or oil in this world couldāve changed that sadly
Sorry to hear what you are going through, tough for a young person to deal with this. Yes you will still find love, true love transcends everything else.
My heart breaks for you. It wouldnāt stop me. Is there any way to have surgery to kinda fix it? If they can make an inverted penis into a vagina I have to believe there is some way to make it look moreā¦. normal I guess would be the word.
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If I was in your situation, I wouldn't be worrying about ever finding love. I would create a bucket list of the most craziest and stupidest things to achieve in my lifetime. Things like going skydiving, conquering a phobia, travel to every country on the planet, go on a reality tv show, break a world record etc. Make loads of friends and enjoy life to the fullest extent possible. And you never know, love just might find you!
Not all people wealthy like your dadyš„²
I think it's important to be optimistic, have hope for the future, try and surround yourself with loving and nurturing people, a man that really cares about you will love you no matter what, the sex thing is different for everybody, and I think experimenting when the time is right might help you figure out what you enjoy, and maybe somethings that don't work for you.
Yes. You will find love. Itās possible. And honestly prob will be easier to find true love because you will filter out the ones that were in it for wrong reasons. Other ways to enjoy sexual relationship. Anal, oral, and other sensitive body parts. People paralyzed from waist down can still have orgasms without being able to feel anything or have erections. Can be neck, breast, ears. Youāll find right person and right ways to have fun sexually
Well, you would be offered the chance of plastic reconstruction surgery after the procedure. Suggest you take it.
Thatās my plan :) once I heal from this one.
I'm so sorry you have to go through this, I'm certain that you'll find an amazing person who will love you just the way you are. I wish you the best of luck! 😊
Aw thank you šš
If theirs some kind of plastic surgery you can take them that might your chances. It wouldn't be the same but any improvement is an improvement.
If I'm being honest without a way to regain the asthetic your chances are going be lowered significantly.
I wish you the best and hope I can further advise down the line.
Also feel free to message me if you want talk about this or some other problem
Oh jesus, I'm sorry for your situation. It sounds harsh as hell.
Thank you. It is š usually this cancer occurs in women who are 50+ years old. But that isnāt the case anymore as younger and younger women are getting it. Itās a lot to be going through but I am hopeful
Yes, I definitely think that you can still find love! Love is much more than just sex or genitals. I do think that it will narrow the field a bit but there are guys out there who will be ok with it!
Itāll narrow it a whoooole lot š but I agree ā¤ļøā¤ļø
Yeah, but you only need just one good partner out of the billions of optionsā¦
I have a similar situation and Iāve found there is potential despite the odds
Itās definitely going to be harder than it would otherwise. But I donāt think itās going to be as bad as you might think. It may be cliche and corny, but your personality and who you are as a person is far more important.
There is much more to a relationship then sex. When you date for something more and you have something meaningful then when you marry a amazing man this kind of stuff won't matter anymore.
I think if a man is 100 percent committed and you know your the best you can be then that man will love you forever in one day so all the love you'll feel in a life time you'll get in a shorter life spans hell believe his best kind of true love will cure you
Whatās vulcetomy I didnāt search it up lol
and ya if we were same age or whatever and I didnāt have my person rn hahahaha I would totally wanna be with u if 1) we were friends and hung out AND 2) if u have a good personality
for me itās personality above all else 🤷āāļø
Oohh, I was thinking it was a throat or abdominal thing.. well to answer your question, uh, yeah. I mean, thereās always alternatives, and for the sake of being normal I suggest you choose carefully on which you selectā¦.
I am sure you will find a guy at least you don't have to worry about a husband leaving you get it done early there might be a guy that can't make love but wants to love and there is more to love then just sex
Everyone is different... blind women find husbands... 1-legged women find husbands, God has a plan for you, if they offer reconstructive surgery, get it, you will feel better about yourself... God Bless
Damn that sucks. Yeah I think you can find love. It is what it is, you can't do anything about it, the most important thing is to make yourself feel better.
So sorry to hear thisā¦let me just say that western medicine is so surgery focused, many people have cured their cancers with thc oil and strict vegan whole food diet, cleanses, fasting, I would explore other options before you let them scare you into doing something irreversible
Yeah I agree. But in my case surgery was my best option. It would only continue to spread throughout my body if I kept it. And the stage that it was in had it looking and feeling terrible. Iāve already had it done. It was causing me so much pain and it was accelerating and changing every week so no diet or oil in this world couldāve changed that sadly
Sorry to hear what you are going through, tough for a young person to deal with this.
Yes you will still find love, true love transcends everything else.
My heart breaks for you. It wouldnāt stop me. Is there any way to have surgery to kinda fix it? If they can make an inverted penis into a vagina I have to believe there is some way to make it look moreā¦. normal I guess would be the word.
They can't even give you one like they do for men that have a sex change.
Honesty, I don't know how they do that either, but its a idea I have
šš I thought about that too but no