Do you think a woman without a vulva can find love with a man?

Anonymous
I have vulva cancer, and I am going to have a vulvectomy. (warning if you’re gonna google it it’s graphic so graphic) um it’s a brutal thing to be going through in my early 20s. I still haven’t fully processed this I am just hoping I live at this point. This cancer has a higher survival rate and I am stage 3 so I have hope. But I am going to lose all sexual function. My clitoris is gonna be gone 😢 I’m a virgin I never got to use my vulva and vagina, and now I’m losing the part that matters for pleasure. Do you think I will be able to find a partner? I just don’t think I’ll be enough after this surgery 😔 I already had women who’ve had this (or another cancer like breast cancer) tell me how their husbands left them in the middle of their treatment.. and I feel so bad for them. They didn’t deserve to be left alone at such a hard time in their life. I’m afraid I’ll be romantically alone forever. I know I have more to offer than that part, but I feel like it’ll be like finding a unicorn to find a man that will be truly okay with this part of me. I’ve cried so much over this I can’t even cry anymore. If I make it out of this I hope I can someday find love and be in a relationship
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Hi everyone thank you for your opinions and kind words :) I have had the surgery. It’s been hard but I’m healing
Do you think a woman without a vulva can find love with a man?
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