Men, would you marry a woman who is not a virgin?

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Would you marry a divorced woman with no children?

Lliam · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't marry a woman who  was  a virgin. I wouldn't even date someone who was saving themselves for marriage.  1. I need to know that we are sexually compatible. Sexual compatibility is as essential as all other aspects of compatibility.  2. I couldn't care less about "purity". Virginity is nothing to cherish. You don't "lose" your virginity when you have sex any more than you "lose" your childhood when you pass puberty. It's just a stage of life. You become a grown up. 3. I think it's abnormal to have never been in a romantic relationship. That would indicate religious or cultural issues at odds with my own. It would indicate a slave mentality; lack of free will. It would indicate that she preferred asceticism over pursuing all the wonders of life. Or she has sexual inhibitions that would make her sexually unsatisfying. I prefer an orgasmic woman who loves sex. 4. The chances that your first boyfriend will turn out to be your ideal partner for life is remote. People engage in relationships in search of their life partner. But relationships, especially those we engage in when we are young, often don't work out. They are a way gaining experience, knowledge and wisdom. They are a way of learning about ourselves and others. 5. If we were in an exclusive relationship, seemed to be perfectly matched, and adored each other, but she insisted on clinging to her virginity until marriage, it would mean that she was holding back from me. What else was she holding back? If she didn't adore, desire and trust me enough to engage 100% in our relationship, there is no way I would be able to trust her enough to marry her.  Marriage is for life. And sex between partners is one of the most intimate and satisfying aspects of a relationship. It is part of the bond between two people and is one of the essential elements in keeping the love and passion alive, even when life, at times, gets rocky.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Yes, if she treats me well and shows that she loves me and stands by me and values our relationship and stays loyal and faithful to me
, than yes I would marry her , her past doesn’t really matter to me if she has good moral values , and isn’t a selfish person

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I would personally not marry a virgin. It doesn't matter if they're a man or woman. I'd like to know that they're good in bed before I'm stuck with them.

LemonJuicee · Accepted Answer

I think guys wouldn't marry a virgin because they would suck in beddd (A. K. A. me) So yeah, definitelyyy they'd marry a non virgin lady

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Men, would you marry a woman who is not a virgin?  I am 69 years old. What are my options? Would you marry a divorced woman with no children?  Of course. Why not?

Anonymous · Answer

I don't need a virgin, but I won't marry a woman with a promiscuous past. Fortunately, there is a giant pool of women between those two extremes.

Would I marry a divorced woman with no children? Maybe, but I would be extremely leary. Marriage is already a mine field for men today, considering half of marriages end in divorce and women file 80% of them. That means every man who chooses to get married knows going into it that he has a 4 in 10 chance his wife will file for divorce. That statistic is already sobering, and a woman who already has a proven track record of divorce is an even greater risk.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Given if I were single I'd be bringing two kids, would be a little hypocritical to insist she were a virgin. My fiancé had many partners before me, it's history and not important to me

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Nope, I also wouldn't date or hump her either.
Marrying the wrong person are intellgence, decisiveness, and patience red flags, and
putting my dick in a place where another dick has been would be gross.

Anonymous · Answer

Well obviously a virgin woman is the ideal. But considering how loose most women are today. To hold that standard would make it damn near impossible to marry.

A divorce significantly reduces a woman's stock. It's not a deal breaker. But she already proven herself a significant risk. So she better be prepared for lengthy vetting process.

Billlewis · Answer

Of course. I'd be more likely not to marry her if she was a virgin.

Fireguy17 · Answer

Sure why not? I don't think that anyone that I've ever been with a Virginia. It isn't important to me.

selfish-and-cruel · Answer

I think they have no choice. Number of virgins is really limited.

Alex-Snow · Answer

Of course... virginity does not have anything to do with it. love is what counts. Besides how many guys are still virgins when they get married?

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, I would, but only if she had sex in serious relationships. If you have serious relationships, you can't have that many because they last long if they are serious. So let's say her body count should be 2 or 3 in her early to mid 20s.

Berethor · Answer

No, she divorce once, can divorce again, and I want virgin, but no children is good.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

I can't say I wouldn't but I'd really have to be out of options for that I think, I want my virgin woman, this is of course just personally tho.

KostasKouvalis · Answer

No virgin, YES! It's damn near impossible to find a virgin in my age range anyways. Divorced, probably not. There would always be that fear of her having a second divorce

aceleon · Answer

no. i am not having non virgin girls, some can have it, i don't.

WhiteSteve · Answer

I’m not sure I’ve ever even met someone who married a virgin lmfao

ImalwaysrightOK · Answer

No. Definitely not one that has been promiscuous or had hookups or friends with benefits. Not anyone I'd call my wife.

Anonymous · Answer

Sure as long as she didn’t have a high body count. She was nice, not full of herself. Didn’t act like the world owed her a damn thing. Is this you you’re talking about?

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Would I marry a woman who is not a virgin? Maybe. Probably not. But maybe. (3% chance.) Would I marry a divorced woman? Absolutely not. Never.

RavVid · Answer

With women being how they are, I am not considering marrying at all. I plan to keep all my assets.

tzdc21 · Answer

To an extend yes I will marry a woman who is not a virgin, especially considering that finding an attractive woman who is a virgin is incredibly rare nowadays. But if she's been ran through by many guys, uh.. nope.

AmeerX · Answer

Yeah as long as she is serious and God fearing and to my liking. And people should stop stigmatizing divorced women with children

DextroShade · Answer

It would depend on her age and reason for the divorce. Unfortunately expecting a girl to be a virgin is unrealistic these days.

StudyingAuthor · Answer

Virgin, yes. Divorced, no. Woman, no. I take interest in men, and I myself call myself a virgin. So we'd be even.

CozyCoffin · Answer

Yeah, virginity doesn't matter, it's the character of the person you marry.

HouseMoat · Answer

No, but, I don't want marriage anyway, soooo

helpfulboy2 · Answer

Only If she's my type of women and I'm divorced too Yeah

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

I have no interest in virgins.

Anonymous · Answer

Why would a divorced woman be a virgin?

exitseven · Answer

Yes, everyone has a past.

Anonymous · Answer

A year ago I wouldn't. But now I am open to the possibility. It would just depend on the person.

Charliefretz329 · Answer

Hard to find virgins at my age

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Date, but not marry.

Anonymous · Answer

If she had a reasonable character, sure.

Gabriel-Chicanito · Answer

Of course;y not?

Astarlessnightsky · Answer

sure.

Anonymous · Answer

How old is the divorce woman?

Zestyassmf1997 · Answer

Yeah, I guess.

kareka · Answer

No...

handsomelad70 · Answer

Yep.

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