Men, would you marry a woman who is not a virgin?

[Anonymous]

Would you marry a divorced woman with no children?

[Lliam]

I wouldn't marry a woman who was a virgin. I wouldn't even date someone who was saving themselves for marriage.

1. I need to know that we are sexually compatible. Sexual compatibility is as essential as all other aspects of compatibility.

2. I couldn't care less about "purity". Virginity is nothing to cherish. You don't "lose" your virginity when you have sex any more than you "lose" your childhood when you pass puberty. It's just a stage of life. You become a grown up.

3. I think it's abnormal to have never been in a romantic relationship. That would indicate religious or cultural issues at odds with my own. It would indicate a slave mentality; lack of free will. It would indicate that she preferred asceticism over pursuing all the wonders of life. Or she has sexual inhibitions that would make her sexually unsatisfying. I prefer an orgasmic woman who loves sex.

4. The chances that your first boyfriend will turn out to be your ideal partner for life is remote. People engage in relationships in search of their life partner. But relationships, especially those we engage in when we are young, often don't work out. They are a way gaining experience, knowledge and wisdom. They are a way of learning about ourselves and others.

5. If we were in an exclusive relationship, seemed to be perfectly matched, and adored each other, but she insisted on clinging to her virginity until marriage, it would mean that she was holding back from me. What else was she holding back? If she didn't adore, desire and trust me enough to engage 100% in our relationship, there is no way I would be able to trust her enough to marry her.

Marriage is for life. And sex between partners is one of the most intimate and satisfying aspects of a relationship. It is part of the bond between two people and is one of the essential elements in keeping the love and passion alive, even when life, at times, gets rocky.

[handsomelad70]

Yes, unless she'd been EXTREMELY randy.

[Lliam]

@handsomelad70. I agree 100%.

[Finchie40]

Yes, if she treats me well and shows that she loves me and stands by me and values our relationship and stays loyal and faithful to me
, than yes I would marry her , her past doesn’t really matter to me if she has good moral values , and isn’t a selfish person

[Anonymous]

I would personally not marry a virgin. It doesn't matter if they're a man or woman.
I'd like to know that they're good in bed before I'm stuck with them.

[LemonJuicee]

I think guys wouldn't marry a virgin because they would suck in beddd (A. K. A. me)

So yeah, definitelyyy they'd marry a non virgin lady

[OlderAndWiser]

Men, would you marry a woman who is not a virgin? I am 69 years old. What are my options?

Would you marry a divorced woman with no children? Of course. Why not?

[Anonymous]

I don't need a virgin, but I won't marry a woman with a promiscuous past. Fortunately, there is a giant pool of women between those two extremes.

Would I marry a divorced woman with no children? Maybe, but I would be extremely leary. Marriage is already a mine field for men today, considering half of marriages end in divorce and women file 80% of them. That means every man who chooses to get married knows going into it that he has a 4 in 10 chance his wife will file for divorce. That statistic is already sobering, and a woman who already has a proven track record of divorce is an even greater risk.

[Drumlin2001]

Given if I were single I'd be bringing two kids, would be a little hypocritical to insist she were a virgin.
My fiancé had many partners before me, it's history and not important to me

[aceleon]

just for stating, who cares about hypocricy, let's asume you indeed wanted a virgin and cared about it, what would hypocrise had anything to do with? would it change your desire for a virgin woman? nope that doesn't work that way.
i get you don't care about history (you should but can't force you to feel a certain way) but youneed to drop the false sense of virtue, there is something called pointless morality.

[Anonymous]

Well obviously a virgin woman is the ideal. But considering how loose most women are today. To hold that standard would make it damn near impossible to marry.

A divorce significantly reduces a woman's stock. It's not a deal breaker. But she already proven herself a significant risk. So she better be prepared for lengthy vetting process.

[Billlewis]

Of course. I'd be more likely not to marry her if she was a virgin.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Nope, I also wouldn't date or hump her either.
Marrying the wrong person are intellgence, decisiveness, and patience red flags, and
putting my dick in a place where another dick has been would be gross.

[aceleon]

dude finally someone who acts like a real man.

[TheSpaceGnome]

@aceleon In my experience my reaction is the norm.

There are just an unusually high amount of cringey players and cucks on this site, its really weird tbh.

[aceleon]

tell me about it? the shock i felt when i see them was astounding.

[handsomelad70]

Yes, because I believe a woman should have a healthy sex life.

[aceleon]

@handsomelad70 me to, with 1 guy for the rest of their life, having more and more sex with different guys is more damaging than healthy for girls.

[selfish-and-cruel]

I think they have no choice. Number of virgins is really limited.

[AmeerX]

Lol, stop dreaming. Lots of women are still virgin singles. Not that it matters

[PrettyCrumblBb]

@AmeerX not many adults are virgin

[AmeerX]

@PrettyCrumblBb 😅not judging anyone but see Muslims. You will find a large population if they are not married first time 😊. Even Church Goers and most religious people are same

[selfish-and-cruel]

@AmeerX They are still only a small percentage of all women on the Earth. And not all Muslims are extreme. I work with a few unmarried girls in hijabs, and they already have boyfriends and sleeping with them. What their parents want and what they do are two different stories.

[AmeerX]

@selfish-and-cruel true but still I am of the opinion that lots of people are in fact virgins.

[PrettyCrumblBb]

@AmeerX Lots of adults are not virgins. Stop deluding yourself.

[AmeerX]

@PrettyCrumblBb 😒you are one, stop complaining. And it's not like there is a meter to check who is who. We have to take it to their words. If someone lies, it's him and God.

[selfish-and-cruel]

@AmeerX I don't try to change your opinion. I just voice mine.

[AmeerX]

@selfish-and-cruel I know.
I was talking to @prettycrumblbb about hers.

[PrettyCrumblBb]

@AmeerX I'm not complaining. I'm a virgin but I'm not deluded. The majority of adults are not virgins.

The Muslim women in your country have to say they are virgins so they won't get stoned to death. Stop being ignorant.

[AmeerX]

@PrettyCrumblBb 🤣🤣😂 and you got that information off where? Like Iran or something.
And like I said, between God and the person. Woman and man both

[PrettyCrumblBb]

@AmeerX Muslims in your country stone women to death for being sexually active. 🙄 I don't know if you're actually this stupid.

[AmeerX]

@PrettyCrumblBb 🤣🤣🤣 I live in Pakistan not Iran. Get your geography checked. And so far no penalty code in my country has stoning nor has it been carried out by state. If anyone murders someone in my country, does it mean they have state backing? The Stoning penalty is not in Quran. Last I heard it's in Bible for adulterers.

In Quran, the penalty is flogging and that also requires 4 male witnesses and not like 4 people will be watching a live show movie and not do anything.

[AmeerX]

And for fake accusations the accuser has to face flogging themselves. it's not like you think. Iran and African countries use stoning but do they represent Islam, I am skeptical. Like Lukewarm Christians, also a lot of lukewarm Muslims and Jews too. Nothing surpring. But our country does carry out stoning

[PrettyCrumblBb]

@AmeerX A teen girl in your country was stoned because her cousin raped her. She was accused of adultery. Wtf your country is messed up.

[AmeerX]

@PrettyCrumblBb by the state? No.
It was a crime. You can't say crime which happened and judicial system are same.

People in your country are also messed up. They shoot people in the schools and colleges and do mass murders and killings

[selfish-and-cruel]

@PrettyCrumblBb "She reported the crime to the local panchayat, a tribal court that operates outside the official justice system in remote areas of the country"

[selfish-and-cruel]

@PrettyCrumblBb It wasn't official law... just the family and tribe

[selfish-and-cruel]

@PrettyCrumblBb "An arrest warrant has now been issued for the members of the tribal council, and the woman taken to a refuge away from the village."

[PrettyCrumblBb]

@AmeerX never said there wasn't crime in my country. I'm saying freedom of speech doesn't exist in yours.

[selfish-and-cruel]

@PrettyCrumblBb You have to read everything, not only the juiciest parts.

[PrettyCrumblBb]

That's not the only article

[selfish-and-cruel]

@PrettyCrumblBb Any data you can share? Reliable sources?

[AmeerX]

Good luck you too. I don't think I change someone's mind 👌.
You are living in a country so far and have literally no idea. What you are saying is 250 million people are all rapists and murderers and we live in a warlord tribal state 🤣.

Good because people literally take money to make a fake allegations and fake witnesses and such. Not everyone is good and I don't think someone like me can explain it. So I ain't wasting my time in this debate.

[Anonymous]

Yes, I would, but only if she had sex in serious relationships. If you have serious relationships, you can't have that many because they last long if they are serious. So let's say her body count should be 2 or 3 in her early to mid 20s.

[aceleon]

what difference would it even make? she is still fucked by other dudes and who knows how many times, yes it is unrealistic to expect virginity from a certain age but 2 or 3 doesn't change the fact some other guys fucked her.

[Opinion Owner]

From a physical perspective it does make that much of a difference, although I would say guys who have serious relationships are less likely to have STDs. From an emotional perspective, it means that she does not easily and readily engage in sexual activity with guys she barely knows. She needs to have a certain level of emotional connection to have sex with someone. Would you marry someone so impressionable that they have sex with only based on feeling a spark? They would be more likely to cheat

[aceleon]

i wouldn't even date with someone who had 1 boyfriend before me, do the math yourself, there is no numbers for me, you fuck 1 guy other than me and you are a whore for me.

[Opinion Owner]

@aceleon After she fucks you she will be a whore? You will get into a relationship with her to keep her virgin 😂

[aceleon]

didn't you read the ''other than me'' part?

[aceleon]

also even if a whore, she would be MY whore.

[Fireguy17]

Sure why not?
I don't think that anyone that I've ever been with a Virginia.
It isn't important to me.

[Berethor]

No, she divorce once, can divorce again, and I want virgin, but no children is good.

[ChicoFromThe305]

I can't say I wouldn't but I'd really have to be out of options for that I think, I want my virgin woman, this is of course just personally tho.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Although I look at people's hearts tho so if that person is someone I want, I can bypass a small body count, small body count is 1 or 2.

[tzdc21]

To an extend yes I will marry a woman who is not a virgin, especially considering that finding an attractive woman who is a virgin is incredibly rare nowadays. But if she's been ran through by many guys, uh.. nope.

[aceleon]

no.
i am not having non virgin girls, some can have it, i don't.

[WhiteSteve]

I’m not sure I’ve ever even met someone who married a virgin lmfao

[ImalwaysrightOK]

No. Definitely not one that has been promiscuous or had hookups or friends with benefits. Not anyone I'd call my wife.

[Anonymous]

Sure as long as she didn’t have a high body count. She was nice, not full of herself. Didn’t act like the world owed her a damn thing. Is this you you’re talking about?

[KostasKouvalis]

No virgin, YES! It's damn near impossible to find a virgin in my age range anyways. Divorced, probably not. There would always be that fear of her having a second divorce

[Jamie05rhs]

Would I marry a woman who is not a virgin?
Maybe. Probably not. But maybe. (3% chance.)

Would I marry a divorced woman?
Absolutely not. Never.

[RavVid]

With women being how they are, I am not considering marrying at all. I plan to keep all my assets.

[Alex-Snow]

Of course... virginity does not have anything to do with it. love is what counts. Besides how many guys are still virgins when they get married?