If you were in an interracial relationship would you wear the gear to match?

Anonymous

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Or is that getting ridiculous already? 😂😂😂

If you were in an interracial relationship would you wear the gear to match?

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Did you guys assume I just meant a White guy with a Filipina?
Don't be racist, she could be dating anyone.

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I married a Native woman, but there was no gear available back then.

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clampfan101 Follow
Master Age: 36

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I’d be just as comfortable with it as my wife was. I wouldn’t feel the need to seek any out because I already had her, but if I stumbled upon some or my wife suggested some I wouldn’t mind them at all so long as they’re comfortable.

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- Asker
  
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  I agree. If I was by chance married to a Filipina woman and she gave me the shirt, I would put it on if it makes her happy.
  Otherwise I imagine it would probably bother some people who don't support dating other races.
  
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- clampfan101
  
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  Well, people who don’t support relationships with other races are close minded fools anyway. If she’s a female human, why shouldn’t I give her a chance?
  
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FilmGuy93 Follow
Guru Age: 31

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That would be insanely tacky, regardless of the races involved

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jennifer_bloomInfluencer Follow
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My cousin married and divorced a white guy and she was careful about not praising white celebrities in public cause she did not want to be seen as a foreign cultures idol worshiper.

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- Asker
  
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  I used to worship Constance Wu, until I figured out it's because she reminds me of my ex.
  
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- FilmGuy93
  
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  What is your/your cousin's cultural background?
  
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- jennifer_bloom
  
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  @FilmGuy93 we’re all Chinese.
  
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LazerBean Follow
Master Age: 24 , mho 40%

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We wear matching clothes, but I feel like matching foreign country gear is pretty weird

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- Asker
  
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  You coordinate your clothes, that's adorable.
  It's like a team uniform, lol.
  
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- LazerBean
  
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  Thanks lol, it's pretty fun!
  
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- Asker
  
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  I just saw these odd shirts when I searched cute Filipina women.
  I couldn't believe that anyone would wear that because it's tacky, and people are already judgmental enough about interracial relationships. I just thought they're meant to bother somebody, lol.
  
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- LazerBean
  
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  We haven't run into anyone who was (obviously, at least) bothered by us being interracial. Both of us are well respected in our community and our marriage was actually a pretty big community event. But yeah, those are pretty dang tacky 😅 we try not to be too cringey
  
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- Asker
  
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  That's good to hear.
  I think in the 15 years I was in an interracial relationship I only remember 2 Native guys commenting to my ex that she should stick to dating Brown people.
  Her cousin said that it wouldn't work out because White guys are only nice at first.
  My aunt said that she wasn't comfortable with me changing our family's race by marrying a native woman. Other than that everyone was really nice to us and thought it was awesome because there weren't that many interracial couples back then. We didn't even use the word "Interracial" and we rarely ever talked about us being different races. She was just my wife, the woman I loved and that's how I saw her. Our son is Mixed and he seems to date White girls now, lol.
  
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- LazerBean
  
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  Aw, that's too bad. Sorry to hear that! My mom's race is pretty racist, but likes white people really well so it wasn't a problem lol but certainly my husband and I do not think much of "race" at all in our relationship. We are just people.
  
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- Asker
  
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  Well I hope you have a wonderful life together. 🙂
  
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- LazerBean
  
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  Thank you 😊
  
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Pinay_akoInfluencer Follow
Master Age: 42

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🤣 hell no. That’s tacky af! Don’t embarrass me 🙈

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- Asker
  
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  So I guess getting "I love my Filipina wife" tattooed on him would be out of the question then? 😂
  
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- Pinay_ako
  
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  🤣 bruh 😎 that’s too much 🤣
  
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- Asker
  
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  Aww, but he loves you. ❤
  
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SteveSmith1985Influencer Follow
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Hahahahahaha wow that's tacky. Goddamn! 😂

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mermaidcancermoon Follow
Xper 5 Age: 28 , mho 45%

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I think thats a bit overboard.

Id only wear traditional ceremony attire for something formal or maybe a flag... but definitely not that.

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- Asker
  
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  Thanks for your opinion. I like your toenail polish.
  
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- mermaidcancermoon
  
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  Thanks
  
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mandyfire98 Follow
Master Age: 25 , mho 38%

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I have been in an interracial relationship and I just dress how I normally do lol.

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- Asker
  
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  Gotta get the gear, lol.
  
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melanieeeB Follow
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I have been in an interracial relationship and this is just hella weird to me

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- Asker
  
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  Yeah I thought it was weird too.
  So weird it made me laugh because a lot of people are very opinionated about interracial relationships.
  There's jealousy and people degrading their own races these days etc.
  That clothing just made me imagine some guy wearing it and getting jumped outside of a gas station because some other people got triggered.
  
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courtney06 Follow
Yoda Age: 33 , mho 51%

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I am in one and I wouldn't wear that. I wouldn't call it tacky but it's just not my thing.

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- Asker
  
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  Yeah I think I would be reluctant to wear it just because some people might get bothered and slash my tires or something, lol. There's a difference between loving your partner and basically boasting about it to rub it in people's faces.
- courtney06
  
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  Yea I hear you it can come off somewhat annoying
- Asker
  
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  I think it would be cuter if people had a shirt made with a picture of their spouse on it.
  It could read "Chris Loves Nicole" or something more personalized like that.
  Then I think it sweet, as opposed to looking like a political statement.
Jamesshinobi Follow
Xper 5 Age: 42

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no i wouldn't... but i think id like it if the girl i was dating did. i hate beimg called white boy but if she calls me her white boy id think that was cute.

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- Asker
  
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  There is something kinda exciting about women of color calling me White Boy, lol.
  I don't know how to explain that.
  
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D_Bone_Steak Follow
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I'm in my interracial relationship for about a decade now... wearing gear for her seems really fucking SIMP-ish.

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litty Follow
Xper 7 Age: 32

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Go ahead if you want to look like a tourist or a contestant on 90 day fiancé, but people in their own home countries would be wearing brand name like Nike or Adidas.

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MCheetah Follow
Master Age: 37 , mho 45%

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Nah. Though I do know one male GAGer who was doing that.

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andreasderjuengere Follow
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I'm not an advertising board or a newspaper.
I refuse to have things written on me.

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No, don't need my clothes to display it xp I'd just hold his hand and so in public

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Table4YTwo Follow
Xper 3 Age: 24

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I am white adopted into a black family and raised for 18 years. I am only attracted to black women, I grew up and am culturally more comfortable in black groups than white.

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Carolinacowboy Follow
Xper 5 Age: 51

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I would wear my normal every day and every weekend clothes, if they dont like i would tell them to KMA!!

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Cowboy6666 Follow
Master Age: 35

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Well I might date or marry interracial but I won't show off like this. 😅

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jshm2 Follow
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That just screams insecurity, tbh. Just like public displays of affection.

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Guy13 Follow
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Not necessary as long as I keep my gear for her…

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- Guy13
  
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  If you’ll cook me pancit, lumpia, and flan…. I will wear or wear not whatever you want.
  
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- Asker
  
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  It's worth a try.
  
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- Guy13
  
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  So, I know about 🚢 and ports…. Are you an island girl…
  
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- Asker
  
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  Wait, do you think I'm female? I'm not Gamora from Guardians of the Galaxy, lol.
  I'm a guy.
  
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SeekingVirginWife Follow
Xper 5 Age: 34

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Why not go for Chinese girls instead of Filipina?

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- Asker
  
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  Oh that's just what photos were left over on my device.
  They were from questions.
  I figured I'd use them up.
  
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- Asker
  
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  Oops, wrong question.
  Sorry about that, lol.
  
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Aurora1010 Follow
Yoda Age: 25 , mho 36%

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I think that would be kind of weird

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JessicaEarl Follow
Xper 6 Age: 31

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I am and I wear whatever the heck I want

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