Is it inconsiderate and rude for my boyfriend to last minute opt me out from a friend meet up? Should I talk to him that it’s not cool?

[Anonymous]

He know this couple who recently immigrated to country. The couple kind of split up but they are still friends and working together. I had never met them before. My boyfriend had been texting with the guy.

We had it planned to meet up with them tomorrow to show them around the city. Somehow, the girl had something else to do and no longer wants to hangout. My boyfriend just told me that the girl no longer wants to hang out, and it’s only going to be just him and his guy friend. Also, he told me his friend sounded like he want it more be a bros thing. I think he was in favour of it being a bros thing, and didn’t consider my feelings.

Basically, my boyfriend last minute ditched me and he didn’t think about my feelings at all. He purposely wasn’t being inclusive.

This is not the first time him doing something similar. Should I once again talk to him that this is not cool for him to do?

[Jamie05rhs]

I am 100% on his side on this one.
He did nothing wrong.

This is NOT personal.
It's simply a matter of logistics.
It was going to be a couples hangout, and now it's not. Simple as that.
Just adjust and roll with it.

[Asker]

Just to give you more info…he had history of ditching me on vacation because I had a crippled leg. He had history of being really inconsiderate and selfish. I get it that normally this might not be a very person thing. However, he literally last minute uninvited me without saying anything and he booked a place already not including me. It was never really a couple hangout because they broke up and no longer a couple. It was a friends hangout. It was pretty rude for him to not discuss with me. It was really inconsiderate of him to not be inclusive, and no discussion.

[Jamie05rhs]

He ditched you in the middle of the vacation because you hurt your leg?
Aww. That's messed up.

[Guy13]

Good Times. Better address it quickly.