Do you think you can find real love and romance after 30th year?

[Batkoo0]

Hello all. :) I have been questioning my sexuality for years.. I had one real relationship with a woman, that lasted 3 years (we were living together and engaged). She left me 5 years ago, for another man, just a couple of months before oure wedding, when I was 25 and since then I haven't been with anyone. But all of this affected me so much, its long to explain, but since she left me, my life turned so bad in everything.. Right now I am 30 years old, in a different country, withouth friends, without anyone. I am sad, alone, broken and really damaged.. And I am losing hope that my life will be any good.. I was also a semi pro football player, but I am now with an injury in my knee, which also happened about the time my ex left me.. So in all honestly I feel like my life is nothing, like is a misery and I am really struggling.. I struggle to find believe, motivation and hope for living.. In a way I dont believe in my happy ending.. :(
I wanted to ask you, do you believe, that a man (or a woman), can find real love after 30th year, or new friends.. And if some of you have any advice of how I can get things better, I am all ears. Sorry about all of this, I just needed to say it somewhere, to someone and I dont have anyone..

[Lliam]

I had girlfriends from the time I was 16. I was infatuated with all of them.

The first time I ever actually loved a woman with my heart and soul was when I was 37. Petra was 30-31 and loved me, too. We had our own places but lived together for over a year.

Alas, a lifetime together not meant to be. We separated for reasons that are complicated but had nothing to do with cheating or anything mean.

After we separated, I felt like my guts had been kicked out. When I was alone, I sometimes literally bawled. Sometimes I doubled over from the pain and felt nauseous. It took a year for me to finally pull myself together and get back out there.

When I was 40, I met my future wife and married her two year later. We've been happily married now for over 25 years. She's amazing.

So don't give up. 30 is young.

[Effably]

Geesh. Life kicked your butt recently mate.

But yes. Absolutely. Not flowering it up or anything. It is absolutely doable and probably not a fifth as difficult as you think. 30 is, when all is said and done, barely an adult today. You've even got time.

[Batkoo0]

Thank you, mate. I hope you are right, I will try to get myself together..

[Litza]

I just turned 28. Absolutely, you can find love after 30, but for now, you should be working on yourself, since you're broken and have some things to work through.

Love will come, in time.

I've learned not to rush it. When you rush, you often find the human embodiment of trouble.

Work on yourself, first.

[Batkoo0]

Thank you for your answer, sweet girl. :) Yes, I know I should be working on myself, making all things better in my life, but it looks like I lost all my mojo/inspiration and I can't do that.. I need to find a way to do it tho, in order to get things together..

[Anonymous]

I’m 32 and I do hope I will find real love someday. And if not, this life is too damn short to be waiting so I’ll simply enjoy the party until my last dance with or without a partner.

[scott04sa22]

I’m 36, single, I give up on dating recently. Dating not worth it anymore and relationship ain’t guaranteed. One minute your happily married then she’s asking for divorce and taking everything you have and owned.

[JakeS00]

Get yourself out there, it’s possible to find love after 30 age.

[Anonymous]

Yes, but you have to be very selective. Most single women are very damaged and angry at that point. Just think of them like unexploded ordinance. Be careful. 🤣

[GurlMaster40]

Anyone can as long as that is what they want.

[Texasgal95]

Yes it’s never too late

[Texasgal95]

I waited for fours years before my current relationship it was so worth it I worked on my self

[slatyb]

It happens all the time.