@LoneWolf21 said most of what I was going to say. Yes, it's possible. No, it won't be easy. You don't have the luxury of time to be passive either - you're going to have to take an ACTIVE role in the process if you hope to have children - you can't just wait for men to come to you.
As others have said, everyone will have more baggage, so expect that. You have much less baggage than most women your age, so that's a strong point in your favor, but you still have more than many girls in their 20s who are your competition. That means you need to have realistic standards for men. You are also going to have to make a choice between children and a restaurant, at least until they are in school full time, because a restaurant is an 80 hour a week job for an owner, and you can't raise children that way.
I strongly advise avoiding dating apps and social media for dating. That's fine for hookups, but you won't find a husband that way. You need to date locally, meet men IN PERSON, and you need to date with intention, because the clock is ticking. You will meet otherwise great men who don't want marriage or children, and you have to eliminate them quickly and move on, no matter how much you like them. It's going to be a challenge, and you have to stay focused on the goal, which is finding a good, moral man who has the same life goals as you. If you focus on his looks or career too much, you will get strung along and will run out of time.
You can achieve this if you work for it and focus on what really matters, but it's going to be a battle, and you won't get everything you want. Make sure you get what matters, and remember that his wants and desires matter too.
Is it possible? Yes. It's not going to be easy for you though. The sorry state of dating and relationships right now is going to be a big hindrance to you. Just be aware of that. I wouldn't recommend online dating in general, but especially stay away from Tinder. Tinder is basically just a cesspool for the most part. Make sure you keep your guard up though. A relatively good portion of guys will just want s*x from you. So be on the lookout for that.
You do have two very substantial benefits in your corner though. You don't have any children yet, and you haven't slept around.
Omg you sound like your in a very similar situation to me. I have spent nine years in a toxic relationship and I’m 34 next year,
I really want to have children and find pure love. I do believe it is out there for us. We deserve happiness and a good partner and to be able have our needs met! Good luck to you, I’m sure there is a nice man out there! If you need to talk email me as I know how you are feeling. Love to you xo
I read your story in the comments. It is very similar to mine. So if you ever needed a friend know you can always DM me. You are a beautiful woman and your past trauma does not dictate your future. You are now lost and depressed and that's okay. Just be kind to yourself ❤️
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Its not impossible... its just harder.
In my 20s it was easy because I was nieve. In my 30s and 40s I just know better and so do the single ladies I meet that are in my age group.
We just pick on thing and see signs that we have experience with... and then we over think it, or cut and run from it.
Welcome to the club. Just got out a couple of months ago. It's a bit hard but I am not looking for one right now. Also, I don't go out due to covid thing, so it'll be hard for me to meet someone new. But yes, it's possible. We need to work on ourselves first. Fix what is broken, improve what is already good and we should be back to the dating game in no time.
It sure is, it is possible at any age to find love.
You might want to try some of the better online dating sites where you have to pay to join, It's just lunch, e-harmony etc.
That tends to eliminate most of those just looking for a hook up for the night. I live in a small town so there were not a lot of options available for dating locally.
So going on line opened up a lot of choices to me.
I wasn't big on going to bars etc.
Of course it is. There are lots of men out there in your age group who are looking for the right woman to settle down with.
This is not a specific advertisement for one... get on one of the better dating sites. I know several people who met and married on there.
I'm 29. Single for 5 years never been married and can't find anyone to talk to or even try to build a relationship with so I understand where you're coming from and the uncertainty. I mean you're beautiful so you shouldn't have any problem but I'm a guy so it's probably going to be a little more difficult. Hopefully this vaccine bullshit don't wipe out half of our age group
you hit the wall. forget it. you have been replaced by the thousands of fresh young sluts who will make exactly the same mistakes that you all other used up hags made. It's not that you cannot find somebody. Never underestimate a woman's millions of options. It's just that you will never be happy with the options you have. Women want it all.
It's ALWAYS possible. Problem is as we age we gain baggage. When we're young we're all relatively in the same boat. Same education, same life experience etc.
You being childless is actually a plus. Kids are the ultimate baggage lol. I'm not saying kids are bad. But kids ALWAYS come first and they should. But that can be a problem when 2 people are trying to get to know each other.
Ofcourse it is. For women if they dont have kids it’s very easy to land a man. The biggest problem single girls have is their kids because the man always assumes responsibility even if the kids aren't his because that is the role of the male to be a strong provider
Possible yes. Probable no. Your 30+ and datings shit right now. Even if you do well I can get sex from other sources for free so the basic point of looking for a partners lost.
Yes it is possible. You're attractive and it looks like you take care of yourself. People find love at different ages. There are even people older than you are who have found love
Yes. I found love in my late 30s/early 40s. It's obviously more ideal if you can find it earlier, but that didn't happen to you it's very possible to still find it latter on.
u Yes, it very much is. I have known people who have gotten married in their mid and late 30s.
Your an old guy who's on a website who texts over a 1000 girls about putting your dick up their ass.
What louser...
People meet and fall in love in elderly homes. There is no age limit on love.
Of course, love isn't age definitive.
People of all ages find love out there.
It's possible. But the state of the 'fast food' dating market today isn't going to make it easy. Good luck.
Honey good thing you got rid of him. He was blocking your blessings. Work on yourself love yourself, enjoy being single and you will meet a lovely guy who will treat you right.
What do you think? I don't know why you asked this... Ofcourse it is, and you know that duh.. if it's possible to find love at 80, why not 30? Anythings possible... I think you just asked this question to sort of advertise that your single and looking and try and get some of the men on this website to hit you up... Wrong site Hun... This isn't a dating website, so kindly fuck off
Of course! At any age. Just remember that we like the same things that you like in guys. Positivity, confidence etc.
I'm sure it's possible. I believe you can find love. 💜
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