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No, of course it's not too late.
BUT... you can't expect to draw the kind of men that you could easily attract in your 20s either. Your social market value was astronomical in your 20s, but it's no longer that way.
Men of equal age have finally caught up and are overtaking you in SMV, and older men are higher. Logically, if a long-term relationship partner is important to you, you should be making a concerted effort to find one as quickly as reasonably possible, because every day that goes by, your SMV drops while men's rises, which is hard to accept after almost 20 years of having substantially higher SMV than men, but it's the truth. The sooner you find a partner, the higher-quality partner you are likely to get - and the longer you wait, the lower the quality of that partner is likely to be.
Obviously one graph isn't going to be exactly accurate for every human on earth, but it's accurate for the majority. You might be an exception, but that's not the way to bet. You aren't too upside-down in value right now, but time works against you.
Stay off of Tinder and the like and go out and meet men in the real world. Find some interests that men share, and then find groups in your area that meet to share that interest, and start attending their functions, and you'll meet men in an organic (and not totally sex-focused) way, rather than the bar scene or a dating app.
u 1. It is never too late to find love. Until I settled in with my girlfriend, I was dating in my 60's. :)
2. People on match, POF, etc. are like people IRL. Some good, some bad, and you'll need to sort through them to find the good ones.
If it is, I'm definitely screwed, lol.
No it's not anon! The problem with dating in our 30s is that most men are already taken, married, or seeing someone. They were snatched up in their 20s.
So that leaves... well not much for the rest of us that are still single, lol. There ARE still decent men our age out there! Finding them is just a challenge.
You need to reevaluate your standards and what you're looking for: by that I don't mean lower your standards! Just think about what type of partner you want and where to find him.
Also stay away from tinder!!!
You will rarely find serious men on there, just flings and hookups.
Think about other sites, or if you live in a decent sized area, meeting men in person at places you like to frequent or hangout.
In the meantime, focus on you! Stop stressing over dating. Spend time with your friends or doing hobbies that make you happy.
I don't think it is too late. I am 28 and my boyfriend is 35 and we are going to get married next year. I was about ready to just give up honestly and I think he was too, but we met eachother by chance and just bam
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No way- I just found it at age 46.
No way that your too old , I think that your in the perfect age bracket to find someone on that you know yourself , your open to it and you know what you want and that’s a great start. The moment doubt steps in your mind though it can be hard to motivate yourself , I know because I’ve been there also but keep putting yourself out there in person and it will happen. I’m sure there are still introduction agencies out there , perhaps that is worth a shot? And if not then there are social groups that are setup for people purely to meet others and they can be good too as it grows the pool of possible candidates ;)
I'm a dude so I can only tell you what it's like from my stance. Finding a hot chick for the infamous netflix and chill isn't that hard. Start looking for long term material though, and usually the female halves have no interest in that until they've become decrepit to their former selves... e. g. got fat, lazy, too entitled to care for anyone but themselves, etc.
Forming actual bonds seems to be harder than ever to find and one is lucky if they find it quite literally. I am so glad I found my life partner a decade ago because currently even the trash treat men in general like shit... or at least that's what it seems like.
Now in good faith I'll assume you're quality and not like the trash I speak of... I would advise you to advertise it and market it. Make it stand out from the others and be seen... then stay up on your preening skills.
yes it is late trying to find the time is going to be the hard part when u have to pay bills work 8-12s a day no more family supporting you living alone is every expensive and when you do have free time you tend to spend it doing things you like. i like playing video game or tanning in the summer am in my 30s and all i want to do is rest relations and retire and move to a nice warm place speaking from myself i really like spending time bye myself is peaceful was never go with the ladies i try and i didn't like it
If its too late then I'll have a problem. I'm in my mid 20's and I take care of my mind & body. I'm trying to develop professionally and would love to have a family someday.. yet well I'm either invisible or the social demographics and the timing isn't working to meet a special person yet.
I think its never too late to find love.
A lot of people wait until their 30s to settle down. By then most have gotten more settled into their careers and are making more money than in their 20s. Also, many professions like doctors are in school until then anyway. Just put yourself out there and you'll hopefully find somebody.
Don't be silly. It is harder, yes. Welcome to my world, but dating are good way to start. Coffee & bagels is a good app.
It matches you with guys based on your info. I think twenty per day, but it only sends the guys that swiped on you and then you decide if you like them back.
Nope, you're still young. I'm turning 42 this summer, so at 31, believe me, you've got plenty of time. Once you're over the hill, I mean over 40... not so much... very slim pickings...
Granted you must level up to only dating someone old enough to be president, meaning 35 and up... no more young ones...
Don't be ridiculous. Also if you let the thought about being left on the shelf take over, you're more likely to settle for people who aren't right for you.
Not at all, there are a lot of men who love women in their 30s and up, myself included.
I personally think women in their 30s and 40s are generally more attractive than women in their teens and 20s, both in personality and appearance.
No it's not. Chances become smaller but it's never the end. Some people find love in their 60's. To increase your chances, you are the one who will have to do the approaching.
Men value youth and beauty, women value strength and resources. At 30, those value lines tend to cross, as a woman's sexual value starts to wane, the men's SMV are peaking.
Well i'm 33 and i often think that, but then i feel like there is a girl out there who is probably in the same boat. We just need to cross paths. Don't beat yourself up about it. I guess when love comes knocking, be willing to open the door.
No it's not
I'm almost 28 and I dont think that it's too late.. I can enjoy doing many things when I'm single :)
The problem is that your behavior and how you come across will be impacted by you're feeling time is running out.
no it's never too late, even if you are 100 it is never too late to find someone that makes you happy
You don't find love..
You make it by believing in it and sacrificing things and don't everything in your power to have it
I'm afraid so. However, you can reinvigorate your chances just by giving me a quick blowjob.
Just an easy, painless blowjob and you will find love once again.😉
Not at all! Go out! Try churches, coffee shops gym etc. You are young !!!
After spending 11 years without my dad, my mum found love again when she was 42. They have been together 2 years.
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