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This has the potential to bring an end to the relationship so you should have a conversation and make sure he understands the level of your dissatisfaction. And if he says something like, "If that's the way you feel, we can just break up right now!" then that is most likely what he wants to do.
You may never get a satisfactory explanation for why this has happened but it is very unlikely that it relates to your ability to satisfy him sexually.
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Why don't you make a video when he's doing that so you have proof that he IS doing that.
It's weird that this started all of a sudden. 🤔 Maybe he started taking pills to give him an erection and he likes the way it feels when HE is doing it.
I wouldn't let him wack off next to me, then roll over and ejaculate inside if you. If he's playing with himself, then he can clean up his own mess.
I just think this is totally fricken weird. I wouldn't want a guy that's doing that laying next to me and wacking off to even try to have sex with me - because he's not the same person anymore. He probably watches a lot of porn too.
even litte boys touch themselves. My husband sleeps with himself in his all the time. Get over it. They just do it.
Interesting. It sounds like an intimacy issue. He sounds like he hasn't completely opened up to you. He still feels safer alone than with you. You guys need to work on that. You need to spend more time together and talk more. Have deep conversations. Really get to know him on an intimate level (not sexual).
But first you need to decide that monogamy is really what you want and you are willing to commit to one person for the rest of your life. Don't tell him you love him if you don't mean it.
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It sounds like he's missing something or he finds this way more entertaining. Some people think musterbating makes them last long on the immediate next time the have sex. Those may be the reason too because you said he does this and finishes with you.
Just be more direct and express to him how it makes you feel
At least it's not cheating. It honestly says nothing about you or what he thinks, it might just be addiction? Maybe he also wants to stop? Maybe
Male chastity belt.
Do it for him. It's part of the girlfriend job discription.
He is showing his true nature. I don't think that this is fixable as it has nothing to do with you. The decision is go or stay.
Yeah, he is weird. Find a better boyfriend. They exist.
Message me - I may have solution for you.
Chastity. You'd have to get him to want to put it on though. And hide the key
Her me out put him in chastity keep the key now you have control over hoe orgasm
STOP wanting to know everything about his manhood. Leave him alone and let him be a "male/man" Jesus!!!
Tell him how you feel about the situation
Get on top of him and ride him when he does it
How is he vibrating the bed lmao
Junmp on top of that junk.
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