I think your boyfriend does not like oral and feminine hygiene is important. You have to shower everyday, even if you’re skipping days, you should at least wash your armpits and vagina everyday. Also, the vagina has a slight musky, NON unpleasant smell. A slight smell is okay, but any foul or bad odor must immediately get checked by a doctor.
He could have told you that you need to keep yourself clean in a more polite way. Have a conversation with him and discuss your likes and dislikes about sexual stuff. It sounds like he does not like oral but is compromising for you to keep you happy.
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I know that in a relationship sometimes arguments happen and that’s healthy to a degree and but also it’s not OK to say something that you told him in confidence, that he now says in a heated argument. Tell him to go get some help and that you’ll be waiting and that you don’t wanna talk to him until he does. Having your feelings hurt creates trust being lost between you two. Sorry doesn’t cut it anymore, he’s gotta go do the work and figure himself out. Can you send her stand body hurt you and it’s gonna take a lot longer than a simple sorry for you to get over this. He sounds like an escalating jerk. Better yet go stay at your friends place for a weekend we can figure himself out and see what it’s like to not have you because when you miss treats you like that that’s what’s gonna happen he’s gonna lose you
You probably do need better hygiene. What he said was rude but let's keep in mind that he's been holding it in for 5 years and it was in the middle of a heated argument so I think he deserves at least a little bit of a pass. That said if you're still upset at him like totally understand and wouldn't hold it against you.
Honestly he should be more open about your hygiene problems if he notices it instead of waiting till you're in heated argument and it hurts someone.
Are you sure you are clean, take care of your body hygiene completely?
And so, try to use some nice decents for ur body.
And then, dress well.
After these even still he will try to complain, so there may be some other problems like he has some problems in himself.
Don't feel bad, u are a sweet woman, you don't need to be sad.
The nice part of this situation, he wishes you deliriously again and again. This is cute.
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You should be washing down there at the very least once a day if not more like a few times a day. Gotta invest in a bidet or something if your not trying to full on shower so you can clean down there.
It sounds like maybe he just doesn't like oral. The vagina naturally isn't going to smell great, and women have to be careful what they wash with as douching can lead to imbalances that can lead to infection, also scented products can lead to skin irritation. The smells of sex, are not always pleasant, but that doesn't mean it's unhygenic, maybe there was something else that was bothering him and he didn't know how to say it.
You should probably take showers more than 3 times a week but sounds like he said a half truth while angry and exaggerated. He probably means it a little bit but also probably just doesn't like oral but compromises for you.
Try washing, at least that part a little bit more than just once every 2 to 3 days. I mean hookers wash before and after sex, there's a reason for that.
Don't be surprised he is cheating on you with a much younger woman. That's a symptom.
Wow. Even if you did have an odor down there, he shouldn't have brought it up during an argument. That's extremely hurtful, petty and disrespectful.
You should shower EVERY DAY.
OMG that's ugly. How many children?
Sounds like you should have better hygiene tbh
Make him face your vagina literally 👿
That is disgusting. You deserve better.
So what…
No one likes a stinky cooter...
- u
Talk to him about it
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