Husband made rude comments about my vagina, but he still wants sex?

MissiJ94
My (28F) husband (31M) were in a rather heated argument the other day and as I was trying to get my point across he switched topics in the middle of me talking to how he believes I am unhygienic because I dont shower every single day (but I keep myself clean in between showers every 2-3 days) and said that I "smell and taste bad and who would want to have their face or even fingers to smell like that." We've been together for 5 years and this has never been mentioned once before, I know my feminine health is important so I make sure that my situation is always situated after an exboyfriend said the same thing to me in the past (which I had told him about). But now a few days later he keeps trying to get me into bed after a half hearted apology telling me "the bigger part of my hygiene comment was & is that even when it's been a day or two in between showers I've still been happy to go down on you despite my overall issues with oral in general and I'm genuinely sorry for the way it came out." How does that even go with what he said? I'm just tired of thinking that there is always something wrong with me...
Husband made rude comments about my vagina, but he still wants sex?
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