Why does my husband always try to have sex?

[Anonymous]

At first, it was cute, but now, I'm scared to death whenever I take a shower, because the door suddenly slams open, and he grabs me when I'm not looking. Like I need some alone time, but he just doesn't get it. He tries to have sex with me in the kitchen, and even in public places like the mall. We work at the same place, so that's another excuse for him to try it. At first, I went along with it, but it's reached the point where I don't want sex anymore, because he's too obsessed with it.

[kkirk4442]

Guys are horny, and want sex much of the time. However, there is such a thing as being reasonable, having common sense, and considering the feeling of your wife. The problem is not that he wants sex all the time, the problem is that he doesn't seem to have a common sense or, a consider what your wife needs, button. It's selfish to not consider your wife's needs, including time off from sex and sexual acts. Consider discussion this issue with him, focusing not on what is "wrong with him", but focus on your need to have time alone, and time without sex, and time without sex being ready to "pounce" on you. Let him know, in a calm manner, that you are getting turned off to sex, because of the seemingly constant feeling of he will want sex, and his too frequent having sex. Also, let him know, that as it is turning you off, that you will feel less and less like having sex, and if he will give you more privacy and more breaks from the requirement of sex, that instead of being turned off completely, you if he considers your feelings, you won't be so turned off, and in the end, he will get more sex by being considerate of your needs.

[Jamie05rhs]

Tell him to cool his jets. Just be like, "Honey, I'm flattered... but it's too much."

[Asker]

Haha

[Jamie05rhs]

I'm serious haha. That's my honest advice.

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks for the MHO.

[0112358]

How often are you having sex?

[Asker]

once or twice day; i would prefer twice a week

[harry7825]

Because he loves you