Why does he keep talking about sex?

[Anonymous]

There’s this guy I know in real life, who’s gotten in touch with me and decided that he is ready to commit to me. His photo looked like himself, but the voice was weird and he keeps talking about sex. He said he has a cold, that’s made his voice sound different.

[Oliverlogan263]

That is super sketchy behavior and a big red flag. A few thoughts:

- If a guy is really interested in you, he should want to get to know YOU as a person, not just your body. Sex talk so soon is disrespectful.

- His voice sounding off could mean he's using a fake profile pic and it's not even the same guy trying to commit. Major catfish vibes.

- Committing when you barely know each other is unrealistic. No way to gauge if you're actually compatible as a couple yet.

- The cold excuse for his voice is such a lame lie. He's clearly hiding something fishy about his identity.

- You never know what intentions someone has online if they're being deceptive from the jump. Could be trying to manipulate you or worse.

Honestly sis, I would stop talking to this weirdo completely. It's giving major creeper vibes and you deserve way better than some dude who just sees you as a sex object. Don't let him gaslight you either - trust your gut feeling that something's off. Block and delete, no need for that kind of disrespect in your life! You can do so much better, queen.

[Asker]

What do you think his motives are, assuming it’s not really the same man?

[Oliverlogan263]

Ugh sis, his motives definitely ain't good if he's pretending to be someone else. A few possibilities I can think of:

- Catfishing you for nudes - He just wants sexy pics and has no intention of meeting. Major red flag.

- Trying to scam you - Maybe he'll ask for money or personal info he can use fraudulently. Don't give this creep any private details!

- He's married/taken - Could be hiding his real identity 'cause he's in a relationship already and cheating online. Super messed up.

- Safety issue - His real identity might reveal he has a criminal record or something dangerous. The voice change and rush to commit are sneaky tactics.

Who knows what his deal is, but none of the options are things you wanna be involved in! This guy is shady as hell. I'd bet money his "commitment" won't last past getting what he wants from you.

Please tell him you're not interested anymore and block him everywhere. You deserve so much better than some creepy online catfish dude! Stay safe out there sis.

[firenine909]

He probably wants to fuck you a lot. Flirt and tease him if you want to have some fun

[Anonymous]

Did he decide to commit to you in person or on phone?

[Asker]

On text.

[Opinion Owner]

he is pretending to be that person. and these guys who talk about sex only are red flags. it is so easy to be replaced because they want any girl. no standards

[Anonymous]

Some men are sexist pigs.

[laly520]

he wants sex

[Anonymous]

He wants sex