What Is A Relationship Deal Breaker For You?

[Kha0tiic_xo]

What Will You Absolutely Not Tolerate In A Relationship?
... Why?

[Anonymous]

Lying. Drug use. Cheating. Any past with incest, beastiality, or any kind of sex offender registry. Likely not a convicted felon but it might depend on what it was for and who she is now.

Being a slut, a hoe, or a whore. A pornstar or having a onlyfans any shit like that is a deal breaker and so much more.

I mean MAYBE if a woman changed and was a Christ follower and really repented of her past I could look past some things but she would really have to have changed

[D_Bone_Steak]

Fucking lying manipulating back stabbing cheaters. I get it that chicks want to monkey branch from one relationship to the next but when that branch breaks and they try to swing back to me... I might keep her for the sex but I'm now going to cheat on her as much as I want. Fuck her, she did it first. I'm better at not getting caught. ... and if I find something better... I'm going to make it sting right in her fucking heart when I leave.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I would add... getting fat or being fat.

[jennifer_bloom]

I would say stinginess cause I’ve never met a stingy person who wasn’t abusive towards their inner circle and another would be people who refuse to be fully present and inclusive towards me in a relationship, if they are dating other girls, refusing to meet during weekends, will not introduce me to friends and family, or refuse to give me all the free time they don’t offer friends and family, I will view that as a red flag.

[weysally]

I'm sorry I think I mis-understood the?, I was thinking on the lines of what clinched me to think my now husband was what he said he was, and that was when he said before we got too serious, " I'm a voyeur" I didn't know what that meant, so he told me, and I said I can go with that,

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Physical/verbal/emotional abuse

Cheating

Lying

Disrespect

Think it's self explanatory as to why...

[NikolasGLT]

Lies and inability to cope with arguments.
Why lies? It's pretty obvious why.
People who cannot cope with an argument ALWAYS end up making things worse by just shutting the conversation down. The problem isn't discussed and it gets shoved to the side, resentment starts to build up and love fades away.

[NikolasGLT]

I'm not saying that I love arguing, but it is one of the most important things to be able to discuss one's problem with s/o like 2 adults.
If that is not possible, a relationship will NEVER last long.

[burlen]

My dealbreakers:

1. Uninviting body odour
2. Unhealthily obese
3. Alcoholic
4. Single parent
5. Racist Sexist Xenophobic
6. Religious zealot
7. Egoistic Narcissistic
8. No sex drive
9. Violent hot-tempered verbally abusive
10. Not easy-going

[HighValue]

1. She has a kid from someone else already.

2. She has a past of drug use/heavy alcohol use.

3. Untrustworthy/dishonest with me.

4. Has contact with an ex.

5. Is past 30.

6. Is a democrat/liberal.

7. Doesn't want kids.

[MikeInHawaii]

I was about your age when I decided I didn’t want kids. I didn’t want to be dealing with teenagers at 60 or paying for college in my late 60’s.

[HighValue]

I still want some. They can pay their own way through college just like I had to. I'll be dealing with kids almost every day at work anyways until I retire so I am fine with it. I actually enjoy it most of the time. I can see why some people wouldn't want to though when they get older.

[_Aragorn]

Demanding more attention from other men, cheating, having or acquiring a toxic personality, not able to manage her finances (reckless), not able to plan for the future (not even together), drug / alcohol abuse, abusive behaviour, cursing, no manners, no principles at all, no hobbies / interests at all, addicted to the internet / social media, not valuing her health or her own worth, gossip, bandy about, personality disorder (s), some mental disorders, et cetera. 😅

[Rose_84]

Lying, manipulation, objectifying women secretly and big words like "forever".

I'll ruthlessly test them until they give up. Only players says things like forever.

[MikeInHawaii]

Isn’t “ruthlessly testing them” a form of manipulation?

[Rose_84]

@MikeInHawaii it's just giving them the taste of their own medicine. I never told them to be dishonest with me. I was just hoping their words to be true. But gut feeling is strong enough to know when someone is totally being misleading. Because they won't leave you the f*ck alone. If you are straightforward, then they'll chase you and try to convince you but when you catch them in their lies, they'll withdraw.

[MCheetah]

Being trans, being "bisexual" (gay), being "polyamorous" (a cheater), being woke/feminist, or being abusive in any way.

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Yeah, lying is my big one. I've ended two long term relationships because of this - first for cheating, second for lying about his immigration paperwork.

[Sirenboobzilla]

Sexism
Lying
Laziness
Jealousy
Controlling behavior
Physical abuse
And under no circumstamce is any man allowed to dictate my decisions based on my being a woman

[KoolKita]

An abuser, someone who drinks alcohol/smokes, someone who is not Christian.

[courtney06]

He definitely wants children.

He has poor communication skills. Gets passive aggressive and abusive when there is conflict.

[courtney06]

Also he has a kid

Not over his exes

Cheating

[Midnight_Kiss]

Lying, in any form, I instantly lose all respect for anyone who lies no matter how big are small of lie.

[maximumpower]

Materialism, drama queen, drugs/dependencies, emotional baggage/instability, verbal diarrhea, fixation on money, fiscal irresponsibilty, unjustified debt, obesity, laziness/lack of income, lack of common sense/stupidity... the list goes on and on.

[Splatmate22]

Lying, cheating , verbal abuse , disrespectful don't understand what NO means. Love bombing , gulit trips.

[Fireguy17]

Lies, cheating, smoking, drugs, constantly on their phone instead of enjoying what is around you.

[Chazmatazz269]

Lying, cheating, abuse, and not mutually investing in us.

[Cowboy6666]

Cheating, lying, hiding important things from me, too many male friends, she sharing her nudes online.

[RuthlessAggression]

no sex

a sexless relationship, is not a relationship, it's a friendship

how can you have a friendship, with a girl you say you're "in a relationship" with?

[JakeS00]

Openness, honesty, lying, cheating, the list goes on.

[AmandaYVR]

Lack of compassion.