Should I text my ex to tell him how I feel?

[Anonymous]

We broke up years ago, I’m OK and know there are other fish in the sea, but I feel like it was right person wrong time. However he reacts to this information is not that relevant to me. I want to tell him that I still think about him so he knows how I feel. He has a girlfriend though, but I’m not trying to get him back. I just want him to know, if he walks down the aisle with her one day I want him to know his old girlfriend feels sorry for how she acted and would take it back if she could. Should I tell him?

[defnotraemie]

This is tricky, but considering it was years ago. I think it’s worth a shot, it was so long ago that you have nothing to lose by coming out. And if you don’t say anything, then you might regret it later down the road. My point is you don’t know till you say something.

[itsmeirene]

No don't tell him. He doesn't need to know and maybe doesn't care.

[Asker]

Not trying to get him to care, just want him to know :)

[ShadowMonarch]

It can be a good idea.. it will clear your thoughts, and may even build a friendship between you and him

[Jamie05rhs]

Nah. It's not appropriate, since he has a girlfriend currently.

Otherwise it would be okay.

[Kshilov]

I would say go for it! You kinda don’t really have anything to lose.

[Twalli]

Not until he's single, if he never is, don't tell him.

[In_Trance]

Never