What the hell is happening and what should I do about it?

[Anonymous]

I love this girl and at first we had late night conversations and stuffs. But later she told me about a guy who she loved but they weren't in a relationship. They don't even talk anymore. I developed some feelings for this girl as I felt a connection between us. But when that guy text her she ignores my text and text him and she'll only tell to me after a week. One day she had a coffee with him after college. He is the one asked her. After this coffee she didn't even text me and told me this after a week. This happens everytime. Like 5 to 10 times. she wasn't even there when I needed her the most. But I was there for her. Yesterday night too happened the same. Is this toxic? What should I do

[hahahmm]

Your best move is to move on. You're giving her things she hasn't earned & she sees you as a doormat because of that. Examples of things you can give: trust, loyalty, respect. You're basically letting her punch you in the face & each time you just smile. She probably gets off on knowing that you want her and that she can treat you like crap. You're being a simp. Check out some of my mytakes on trust, not being a sucker, leadership and being a better man. May give you ideas.

[mike5150]

Let her go and move on. This goes for everyone, if you are in love and want to be with someone you need to treat them like #1 and they need to do the same for you. In this case you're putting her first and she is putting you last.

[Jessica405]

Give up. She loves someone else, who appears to be leading her on. It won't change, at least her feelings won't.

Chase this girl and you will always be "playing second fiddle".

[hahahmm]

Yeah. And even if she claims to be over the other guy, odds are she would be cheating with him or dumping the poster for him eventually. Not worth the hassle.

[Jessica405]

@hahahmm Agreed!

[Texaskid1]

You fell for some girl who is not into you. From her view point you are just a platonic friend. She does not have any romantic interest in you.

You have bee friend zoned

It may not be what you want to hear but the best thing you can do is move on to some other girl. Also , look into red pill ideology. It can help a lot.

[hahahmm]

A platonic friend she can use for ego strokes, free meals, free car repairs and whatnot.

[Texaskid1]

@hahahmm Sad but true.

[NathanDavis]

well, she doesn't love you...

and she's not yours either... so she does not really have to be with you just because you want her, that's not how life works

[Guy13]

Pray…