Boyfriend always talking about actresses and how hot they are and it pisses me off?

[Anonymous]

Is that normal? This is the second boyfriend I have had after one long term relationship. My previous SO did not ever do this so I don't know if it is normal but it bothers me and I get jealous. I don’t like it at all…

[Anonymous]

Then dump his sorry ass, or start doing the same thing with male actors.

[RuthlessAggression]

do you think it'd be ok if you talked about men/actors then?

[Asker]

Think he will get jealous loool

[RuthlessAggression]

Then you get my point

[MTC29]

Yes, it is normal. In point of fact, my SO will point out women and ask me if I think that they are attractive.

As far as the most beautiful actress, that's easy:

... Catherine Bell.

[Asker]

Not everyone is a cuck my dear

[MTC29]

Adress me a Sir, not Dear. Now, go away, little girl.

[Wellebelle]

If you do it about male celebrities but don't want him to do it then it is hypocritical but if you don't do it to him and it bothers you then tell him that you don't like it when he does it and that you don't need to know who he finds attractive

[Hrumf]

He may be in a relationship but he isn’t dead. It is totally normal. These are celebrities: probably completely unattainable for your boyfriend so he is literally just looking at the view.


My parents married 30+ years talk about their celebrity crushes to each other and would even tease each other about it. It is very entertaining to watch actually 🤣

[Anonymous]

Completely normal. What's not normal is thinking that you're the only women that he thinks is attractive. I could understand if he was always saying every woman he sees when he's with you is hot, but do you seriously believe that he's going to find these celebrities, make them fall in love with him, and run away together? Get over it and don't let this level of insecurity sabotage your relationship.

[Asker]

Not everyone is a cuck

[Opinion Owner]

cuck

/kək/

noun
1. a weak or servile man (often used as a contemptuous term for a man with moderate or progressive political views).2. a man whose wife is sexually unfaithful; a cuckold.

Cuck" doesn't mean finding celebrities attractive.

This isn't worth arguing about. Take the advice or don't, doesn't matter to me, you're the one who's shooting yourself in the foot and it will result in you being alone and miserable because most people won't tolerate people like you for long.

[Opinion Owner]

Have a good day tho

[Asker]

Well just because you have low standards doesnmean everyone else does because most other men and women have said the above us red flag goals. It is not normal for a man to be obsessed with a celebrity. He should be obsessed with his girlfriend only. 🙄 Maybe you have a wandering eye but not everyone in the world does.

[Opinion Owner]

Where is the obsession in finding celebrities attractive? If he desperately trying to meet them? Is he stalking them? Is he giving them a substantial amount of money? Is he constantly writing them love letters? you didn't mention any of this in your question, so I'm assuming the answer is no, therefore there is no obsession.

You're extremely childish, insecure and irrational. YOU are the red flag.

[Opinion Owner]

My partner, the mother of my child, has ALWAYS found Charlie hunnam attractive, she'll watch anything with him in it - is she obsessed with the guy? Am I as attractive as Charlie Hunna? No but I'm not worried about it because even if she found a guy who looks exactly like him, I have more to offer her than my looks and I also trust her. Is your body and looks all you have to offer your boyfriend? Is that why you're so worried?