Why Do I Get So Turned On When A Beautiful Woman Talks About Her Boyfriend Constantly?

[Billlewis]

I recently began corresponding with a lovely young lady who mesmerized me by simply going on and on and on about the gentleman whom I refer to as, 'The Luckiest Guy In The World'. As I read her various questions and comments, the subject of most of her posts was -- you guessed it -- her boyfriend! I've thanked her effusively for her wonderful choice of topics and I sincerely hope she'll continue to drive me crazy with excitement, jealousy and frustration with her frequent references to this extraordinarily fortunate man;)

Yes, you're a degenerate pervert for obsessing over the luckiest guy in the world!

No, it's perfectly understandable that you're so jealous of the luckiest guy in the world 😄

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7 mo

I recently began following a married woman who clearly enjoys talking about both how gorgeous she is (which is 100% accurate, as far as I know) and the luckiest guy in the world (her husband). It's not particularly common for a married woman to be so braggadocious about her attractiveness, but for reasons I can't explain, this particular woman is everything she claims to be, in my opinion, and the added excitement she creates only makes her that much more maddeningly enticing;)

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7 mo

And although I'm a bit hesitant to use this term, if I could choose any adjective I wanted, without fear of upsetting her, I'd probably go with 'arrogant' -- which is far from a negative personality trait in my view. If someone is that sure of their attractiveness, they're almost always accurate, especially women. If you're reading this, Ms. _________, please know that this is intended as the highest praise I can come up with😗🎯

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3 mo

I just met another woman who apparently enjoys talking about her boyfriend👍

[Cute_Miss_Laura]

The simple answer is that this is your kink, and as long as it isn’t hurting anyone, and it seems like it is not, then it’s not really an issue that needs therapy, unless it is interfering with your life somehow!

This situation might be related to a form of paraphilia known as pseudo-cuckold fetishism, or pseudo-cuckoldry. This particular paraphilia involves sexual arousal from the idea of someone who is not a sexual partner being with someone else sexually. While traditionally cuckoldry involves one's own partner, variations can occur where the arousal stems from the unattainability of a sexually desired person and the reality of not only her being with someone else, but you never being with her sexually (which relates to the forbidden fruit effect I will describe below). Here are some potential psychological factors that might help to explain why this situation arouses you:

The Forbidden Fruit Effect. This is the idea that something desirable is unattainable to you, and that increase its allure. This is often referred to as the "forbidden fruit” effect, because you know that you cannot have her because she is with someone else, which only serves to enhance your desire and, consequently, your sexual arousal.

There could be an element of masochism involved, where the emotional pain of knowing she is with someone else enhances the sexual arousal. This kind of dynamic can sometimes be linked to deeper psychological patterns related to self-esteem or past experiences. If so, then you really should look for a therapist who deals with sexual dysfunction, and atypical paraphilias, to help you as this is not healthy.

Another thing could simply be that it relates to your fantasies and your imagination. The imagination plays a significant role in sexual arousal. Imagining the object of your affection with her boyfriend could be part of a broader fantasy that excites you. This might involve elements of voyeurism (finding arousal in observing or imagining others in intimate situations) or a complex psychological narrative that you find stimulating. Sometimes, the emotional distance created by the impossibility of a relationship can make the fantasy seem safer and more arousing. There's no real-life complication or commitment, which can be part of the appeal for you.

another factor that could be in play is power dynamics! There may be an element of this play. The idea of someone else having power or control over the woman you desire can create a complex interplay of dominance and submission that you finds arousing.

Either way, it's important to note that human sexuality is highly individual and extremely complex, and there can be numerous factors at play in any given situation. If these feelings are causing you distress or interfering with your daily life, speaking with a therapist or psychologist who specializes in sexual health could provide more personalized insight and offer a supporting environment in which to address these issues. But again, I don’t think this is bothering you. If not, then just keep on keeping on. In other words, you do you, Bill.

I really hope this helps in some way.
Sincerely, Laura 🤗

[Billlewis]

Yes,, ma'am, that's very informative. Regardless of what path I traverse to reach my destination, the overarching philosophy remains as in previous times -- to please the woman who desires, deserves and demurs, and when she does so, my efforts are hers.

[Crimsyjo]

"Why Do I Get So Turned On When A Beautiful Woman Talks About Her Boyfriend Constantly"

Well quite simply because it's your kink. And a rare one at that. I don't think many men would enjoy that at all. Unless they enjoy imagining they were the boyfriend instead.

But if she enjoys the opportunity to talk about herself and boyfriend and you enjoy hearing about it then I guess it's a win win. No harm done.

Enjoy xx

[Billlewis]

Yes, ma'am, thank you very much!

[Billlewis]

She's apparently very well educated, and her incendiary descriptions of her lovemaking sessions with her boyfriend are unfathomable. Like many women, she's adept at using coarse language to convey the feverish excitement of their physical intimacy, knowing full well that she's giving me the most vicious prick teasing in at least a decade, if not for all time. I'm indebted to her for making me feel so young again

[Crimsyjo]

You really need to write steamy novels for a living!! You have a beautiful flow and use of language!

[Billlewis]

Oh my goodness... you're making me blush, Ms. Luna. I so appreciate your kind words and gracious acknowledgement, but you, and the other women who torment me are the inspiration for such prose, and without that motivation, I'd be incapable of producing it.

[LordMadara]

NEVER ALLOW A WOMAN TO TALK ABOUT HER BOYFRIEND

YOU ARE BEING FRIEND ZONED

IMAGINE BEING ON A YEARS LONG DRY SPELL AND A WOMAN IS YAPPIN ON AND ON ABOUT HER F***N BOYFRIEND 😩

GET A LIFE BUDDY, STOP HURTING YOURSELF LIKE THIS , ADOPT WAYS TO SHOW YOU DONT CARE , OR SIMPLY JUST GHOST OUT PLEASE , ITS NOT A FETISH THIS THING YOU FEELING ITS SELF HARM

[Billlewis]

@LordMadara But how do you really feel about it?

[Rami_NL]

Because you are a loser who gets turned on when you read the stories of normal people having the normal life that you can't have

[Billlewis]

Yes, Sir, but you are far from normal, average or typical, in my humble, admittedly meaningless opinion. Thank you for your honest, accurate and utterly precise evaluation of the depths of my weak, celibate futility.

[menina]

I suppose you're imagining her and her boyfriend having sex.

[Billlewis]

Oh my goodness, yes!

[menina]

I knew it Lol

[AngryCarl]

I've always known you were a degenerate pervert so this doesn't change my opinion. Regardless, I find it weird.

[Billlewis]

Yes, Sir, thank you very much.

[Anonymous]

Because even annoying chihuahuas get more attention than you

[Billlewis]

Yes, ma'am, thank you very much.

[Billlewis]

When I messaged her, and told her that her repeated comments about her magnificent alpha male lover were driving me absolutely crazy, she seemed very pleased at this revelation, and assured me that she'd gladly continue to remind me, as well as the rest of the guys on here about how intensely pleasurable it is for him when he's enjoying hot, passionate sex with her, and all we can do is play with ourselves and dream about what we want so badly but will never, ever experience;)

[Opinion Owner]

Are you still rambling on you old fart? Go water your plants or whatever it is you old people do for fun

[Billlewis]

At least I can state my opinions on here without having to do so as a nameless, ageless shadowy anonymous entity.

[smartasschick2023]

Totally agree there is a bit of jealousy in why your so into wanting to know details of her relationship. What ever float your boat lol

[Billlewis]

I know, right? This is as close as I'm gonna get... lol

[CubaPirate]

Because you're thinking about eating her pussy after he's cum in it obviously

[Billlewis]

Yes, Sir, you know me too well... lol;)
Ladies, have you ever had a guy lick you clean after you've just had sex with another guy? ↗

[Arguydo]

I have so may questions.
Do you imagine her having sex with him? Is that something that will also turn you on? Or maybe you just like to watch?
Would a 3some be a good idea for you?

[XXblack88]

Probably cause you're an idea who needs to get a life

[Nikki1989]

Winners are often admired. It is when you hate winners, you have some mental problems going on.

[Billlewis]

Oh, believe me -- in no way, shape form or fashion do I have anything other than awestruck admiration for the luckiest guy in the world. Am I jealous of him? Absolutely, but it's a good, constructive jealousy, not the bitter, angry variety. In fact, if I could somehow get his autograph, I'd be honored;)

[electromagnetic]

I still think you need a dating website. 😆

[Billlewis]

Yes, ma'am, thank you very much.

[Amara_09]

You are weird. Why is that even a turn on for you?

[Billlewis]

Because as a longtime cuckold who has been kept celibate for many years, I've learned to appreciate the sexual encounters she enjoys with her boyfriends and male lovers. Indescribable frustration, jealousy and horniness are my sources of inspiration now, and I'm honestly happier than I've ever been 🤗

[LordMadara]

sexual deprivation it happens to us men the most 🤷🏽‍♂️

bcoz yu women dont hv the balls to correct the dysfunction that was caused by the feminist frenzy elites

this is what most men will adopt as relief from endless loneliness and lack of partnered sex,

by the way 🤗 AI will soon replace the women , so your advantages of getting a partner easily (a fool 🤦🏽‍♂️) will soon come to an end in the near future , you will just be like us men
sexually deprived
turning lesbian
isolated
and most importantly lonely 🤗

the clock is ticking 😂😂😂
goodluck

[MK1997]

You are a cuck

[Billlewis]

Yes, ma'am, thank you for your highly accurate assessment.

[Jennz6]

You’re just jealous

[Billlewis]

Oh, I'm insanely jealous -- and she clearly enjoys my constant frustration, horniness and general torment. I can't even imagine what she'll do to me she finds me. She's really an amazing lady, but like all prick teases, she has absolutely no remorse, compassion or mercy whatsoever -- when she's got me squirming, that wuss weenie keeps burning... lol.

[Pete671]

It's hot when they talk about sex they have and how big their cock is,

[boobliker]

it is just natual sexapeal

[helpfulboy]

You clearly need girl dude

[Mark987]

Have you ever met her?

[Billlewis]

No, she lives thousands of miles away and she's totally committed to the luckiest guy in the world;)

[Mark987]

Honest opinion... find another woman that you can meet and be in a relationship with.

[Billlewis]

Nope. This is more satisfying than anything I could do on my own; that's why I'm so spellbound by everything she says and does;). And her boyfriend... forget about it... he's basically the hottest, most badass guy to ever walk the earth.. lol