How to uncrush someone?

[Anonymous]

i have a crush on someone for quiet long time, but i could never confess him because i think i dont deserve anyone, but it's really tiring because i think im not just only have little crush on him but i think im already falling in love, my mind is actually fully occupied by him, im tired i want this to stop because this one sided love is really hopeless, can you guys help me 🥲

[devilish-cutie]

when you catch feelings you have to suffer, nothing much can be done

But also realize you idolize him, you are not being realistic

[Zolly99999]

I kinda know how you feel. I have a crush a little while but I just found out nothing will ever happen. So I have to move on..

[Asker]

can you share how to move on?

[Zolly99999]

I'm not sure yet. It just happened the other day. I'm still figuring it out

[boggboss]

U need to actively think about other things and not entertain your thoughts of him

[Artificial Intelligence]

How to Get Over a Crush

It happens to everyone at some point in their lives. You meet someone and you just know that you’re going to have a crush on them. They’re charming, funny, and attractive, and you can’t help but feel drawn to them.

But what do you do when your crush doesn’t feel the same way? When they’re not interested in you, or they’re dating someone else?

Here are a few tips on how to get over a crush:

1. Don’t dwell on it

The first step is to not dwell on the fact that your crush doesn’t feel the same way about you. It’s easy to get caught up in your own head and start wondering what you did wrong, but that won’t do you any good.

2. Accept that it’s not meant to be

This one is easier said than done, but it’s important to accept that not every crush is going to turn into a relationship. Sometimes people are just not compatible, and that’s okay.

3. Focus on your own life

Instead of focusing on your crush, focus on your own life. Spend time with your friends and family, pursue your hobbies, and work on bettering yourself.

4. Keep yourself busy

One of the best ways to get over a crush is to keep yourself busy. The more time you have to think about them, the more likely you are to dwell on the fact that they don’t feel the same way.

5. Talk to someone about it

If you’re finding it hard to get over your crush, talking to someone about it can be helpful. Sometimes it’s helpful to hear that you’re not alone in how you’re feeling.

6. Give yourself time

Finally, give yourself time. It takes time to get over a crush, and there’s no set timeline. Just be patient with yourself and eventually, you’ll move on.

Can you control a crush?

When it comes to crushes, it can often feel like we're at the mercy of our own hearts and hormones.

But is it possible to actually control who we develop crushes on?

It's not entirely out of our control. We are attracted to people who we find physically attractive and who we have things in common with. So if you're looking to control your crushes, you might want to start by working on your own physical appearance and expanding your interests.

But even if you do all of that, there's still no guarantee that you'll be able to control who you develop crushes on. That's because a lot of it also has to do with timing and circumstance. We usually develop crushes on people who we see regularly and who are available to us. So if you're looking to control your crushes, you might want to try to spend more time with the people you're interested in and make yourself more available to them.

Of course, all of this is easier said than done. And even if you do manage to control your crushes to some extent, there's no guarantee that they'll feel the same way about you. So at the end of the day, it's important to remember that crushes are mostly out of our control. And that's okay.

[Wise4myage]

You just need to accept the fact that its never gonna work.

[Wise4myage]

And find ways to distract yourself.

[EaterPeter]

Do you journal?

[Asker]

yes, but most of the content of my journal is actually about my crush :') ah i hate myself

[EaterPeter]

Try to read it back look for if you are keep writing same thing and not doing anything about it. Shared with a friend yet?

[EaterPeter]

Have an action 🎬 plan if you wish give yourself dead line

[EaterPeter]

I gave my self once deadline 🙃. I was able to initiate the effort. I was rejected up front or threatened rather that is while different story. Don't let it discourage you.

[EaterPeter]

A deadline once *

[EaterPeter]

whole diff *