Boyfriend won’t tell his parents about me?

SassyStar47

My boyfriend and I have known each other for almost a year and have been dating for 7 months now. His parents know nothing of my existence. His dad came to visit him last week and before and he didn’t once bring up that he was dating someone. His father knows more about his cousin dating someone than he does about his own son. He was going to meet my mom this weekend but I canceled it because it felt unfair that you’re going to meet my mom but your parents think you’re single!

I didn’t say anything. But he told me they aren’t close and because he’s West Indian that’s why. My family is too part West Indian and my peoples have been around West Indians most of their lives. I also think it’s weird because he’s talked about us living together and even kids and doing other long-term stuff. But my existence is unknown to his people? Like I’m out here cooking for him, basically playing house with him and I feel stupid because his family doesn’t even know he has a girlfriend. (I’ve only met people when the moment is there. Like I met his cousin because they live together)

should I feel some type of way? Is it maybe too soon and I should leave it be? A part of me deep down doesn’t want to meet them anymore because of this but it’s just that fact I don’t like being a secret.

Boyfriend won’t tell his parents about me?
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