My new boyfriend is always going through my stuff we just moved in together and I’m constantly catching him snooping through everything of mine help?

[Foxylady30]

Ok so my new boyfriend is constantly snooping in my stuff… like my baskets with my clothes or makeup or anything I put away…he’s constantly questioning everything I do and I know it’s huge red flags so I know I need to leave but how?

[boggboss]

Please wale up you got out of a long term relationship straight into a toxic relationship u shouldn't need to ask strangers what to do here

[In_Trance]

Time to gtfo of there

[Anonymous]

Move in with friends or something. You need to move on ASAP.

[Foxylady30]

Yes your right I do need to leave asap
It’s not healthy for me…
I just need to move out while he’s at work

[Avicenna]

Tell him he needs to stop immediately. At least give him a chance to change what he is doing.

[Foxylady30]

I have I’m honest with my feelings but he’s not stopping I’m trying to see if he will change and giving it time but how long should I waitb

[Avicenna]

Give him a week and monitor things thereafter. If he keeps doing it, end the relationship immediately

[vald9inches]

Thats a fucking huge RED FLAG!! 🚩🚩🚩🚩yea gtfo! Lol

[Guy13]

That’s not healthy ⁉️

[Guy13]

How does that make you feel? Does he supervise you in other things as well? Do you see a pattern or is this just one time incident? What’s your instincts saying?

[Foxylady30]

He constantly asking what I’m doing when I’m on my phone he wants to know my passcode to get into in I told him no cuz it’s invading my privacy everytime I leave the room he’s going through my stuff and I have caught him doing it… I literally just got out of a relationship with my ex 8 years and it was bad so now I feel like he’s stalking my every move and it’s starting to make me feel uncomfortable

[Guy13]

Wow, that’s nutty to me. These things only get more intense the more comfortable he gets.. or the more he thinks he’s got you trapped. A lease with both names on it for a year is such a trapping tool. You are an adult and can make your own decisions. Girl do these things to me then I would be out….

[Agape93]

Who's on the lease