I actually have been in such a relationship. My girlfriend had several boy-/girlfriends. My past girlfriend Koko and my love Noura won’t mind me dating other women as well.
I have never considered it. Now that you asked i would most likely be jealous (two men and one girl) or always be comparing the two (two girls and myself).
Although not married or have a SO, I have many friends with benefits. I FUCK 4-5 times a week, usually with different women. So that is sort of like a Polygamus relationship.
I will never feel comfortable in a relationship like that
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I though the idea was cool when I was like 14. I don't want to now though. It sounds bad. Unless I'm the only one dating multiple guys, but then that's just selfish.
Ever looked at how nature is when several males fight over one female. That's exactly how it would end up the same with humans. Their goal is to have an offspring with a female and any male is an enemy even her own brother to him. Relationships with more then one person only make sense for men to have more then one woman if at all.
@RiseofArtemis I don't care about nature, I still wouldn't like it. He'd probably end up liking her better and that'd make me sad. Plus, we're more evolved than just doing and feeling whatever an ape would do and feel. I'd probably stay completely monogamous anyway, I don't need more than one man anyway
@RiseofArrimis Just because *you* can't share doesn't mean that some of us can't. It's hard, it hurts sometimes. But it's worth it, because if she's loving someone else as well as me I'd rather have her enjoy the happiness of being with him as well as me rather than forcing her to pick one of us. I just don't want to put my own feelings above hers.
Yes, I was jealous sometimes. But jealousy can be worked on. And it's worth it.
@Opinion Owner If you're someones first partner and they fall in love with someone else then they're probably going to be a bit caught up with that person in the beginning. That's just normal. Just work together with your partner to also maintain *your* relationship. How much or little he loves another woman doesn't matter for how much he loves you. You and him are responsible for nurturing *your* relationship together regardless of who else may or may not be involved.
If he loves you he's not going to leave you or ignore you just because he also loves someone else. Just make sure that all three of you feel like you're getting enough time together to fill your needs.
@Losalt Still sounds bad, I'm not good at anything so I wouldn't take the chance. I don't want to be the worse one. I hate not being good enough. I'd personally still stick with monogamy
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I would love to have 2 girlfriends. Every man would, but they lie to themselves because they know it'll never happen
Nope. I'm monogamous and desire a traditional family unit.
Fantasized but probably never, besides I would only want it with me and multiple girls, which just shows its irrational. Lol
Giggles! I know exactly what you mean.
I actually have been in such a relationship. My girlfriend had several boy-/girlfriends. My past girlfriend Koko and my love Noura won’t mind me dating other women as well.
I have never considered it. Now that you asked i would most likely be jealous (two men and one girl) or always be comparing the two (two girls and myself).
No question. I couldn’t, wouldn’t, and will never want to.
No but a threesome once in awhile sounds nice.
Yes, but only contemplated. I never "brought it up" for a decision.
For fun maybe, for a long term commitment, no doubt it will last
Totally understandable!
Although not married or have a SO, I have many friends with benefits. I FUCK 4-5 times a week, usually with different women. So that is sort of like a Polygamus relationship.
@Secret6620 Thanks for the Like
Yes, I want one so fucking bad but my partner isn't interested 😭
No thank you. I'd like to be the sole romantic target of my partner's life and vice versa.
No I wouldn't. One woman is enough for me. I wouldn't want to share my wife with another guy
I would say no due to the fact I want no dude's trying to get with me where as "I love the hole and NOT the POLE" ☺️👀
No. I'm only for one woman and I only want one woman.
nope nope nope I'm a one person guy, if they don't love me enough to be with me than honey you don't deserve me lol.
Not my cup of tea
I will never feel comfortable in a relationship like that
I though the idea was cool when I was like 14. I don't want to now though. It sounds bad. Unless I'm the only one dating multiple guys, but then that's just selfish.
Ever looked at how nature is when several males fight over one female. That's exactly how it would end up the same with humans. Their goal is to have an offspring with a female and any male is an enemy even her own brother to him. Relationships with more then one person only make sense for men to have more then one woman if at all.
@RiseofArtemis I don't care about nature, I still wouldn't like it. He'd probably end up liking her better and that'd make me sad. Plus, we're more evolved than just doing and feeling whatever an ape would do and feel. I'd probably stay completely monogamous anyway, I don't need more than one man anyway
@RiseofArrimis
Just because *you* can't share doesn't mean that some of us can't.
It's hard, it hurts sometimes.
But it's worth it, because if she's loving someone else as well as me I'd rather have her enjoy the happiness of being with him as well as me rather than forcing her to pick one of us.
I just don't want to put my own feelings above hers.
Yes, I was jealous sometimes.
But jealousy can be worked on.
And it's worth it.
@Opinion Owner
If you're someones first partner and they fall in love with someone else then they're probably going to be a bit caught up with that person in the beginning.
That's just normal.
Just work together with your partner to also maintain *your* relationship.
How much or little he loves another woman doesn't matter for how much he loves you.
You and him are responsible for nurturing *your* relationship together regardless of who else may or may not be involved.
If he loves you he's not going to leave you or ignore you just because he also loves someone else.
Just make sure that all three of you feel like you're getting enough time together to fill your needs.
@Losalt Still sounds bad, I'm not good at anything so I wouldn't take the chance. I don't want to be the worse one. I hate not being good enough. I'd personally still stick with monogamy
It would be good if no one would get jealous. Jealousy tears up a lot of relationships.
With two girls yes. I can't share a woman. They would have to be super chill tho