Would you say you need a man/woman?

Question

I would say so. One day I’m gonna need a girl to share my life with, marry and have babies with.  So yes I would say I need a girl.

FreedMan · Accepted Answer

Stop. Get this nonsense out of your head. You don't NEED a woman. Establish yourself. Get your career going, focus on developing yourself mentally and emotionally as a man. Study philosophy and grow your mind. As a man who's had children and been married for 11 years it's not something you NEED. You need to have your own identity that is able to exist on its own. Then once you actually know who you are as a man then decide if you WANT a wife and kids. This alone will greatly reduce your risks of divorce as you'll be much more selective about who you CHOOSE to share your life with. Stop letting society and women (obvious generalization) tell you that validation comes from being a husband and father because it's simply not true. Personally, I'd wait until child support and custody laws change to actually reflect something resembling equality and in the best interest of the children. To clarify I love my children very much and would die for them, but they aren't my identity.

TheUniqueOne96 · Accepted Answer

No, because I've never been with anyone anyway, so I'm assuming you're talking about having a relationship - it's not an attack on women, I'm saying that I don't need a relationship in general.

You can't miss what you've never had and it's easily to associate perfect compatibility, personality and behavioral traits with someone, just because they pass the looks test based off of how they present themselves.

People have flaws and sometimes you don't see them until you've been in a relationship, so it's a matter of deciding whether or not you want to put up with their flaws and whether or not they justify the rewards of being with them.

I don't have or want to have kids either.

If it happens, it happens, if not, then whatever, but I don't want to be one of those that get's depressed over it if it never happens, because all I want out of life is to be happy.

Haha456 · Accepted Answer

There is a difference between wanting a "woman" versus wanting a "wife". Americans tend to want a woman but not a wife. This can be seen in the way you divorce then remarry so much. Americans tend to also be afraid of commitment.

And secondly, its better to not put such a big expectation that you will marry and have kids. There is an increasing number of young men and women who stay single until old age. Its really not uncommon to see singles in their late 30s or early 40s. Many people tend to get disappointed when their lives do not turn out the way they expected.

BlueScorpio · Accepted Answer

Do you need a man or woman? Realistically no, you could live your whole life without one, however having someone in your life is special and because we are designed to be social creatures, the urge for closeness and human affection grows and is wanted even more. I have my husband and I'm happy he's in my life

letuswaltzforthedead · Answer

In a sense yes, but you could also say it's a want and not exactly a need. I'd still want to have a relationship and kids eventually so at least in a biological sense, I do. Being in a relationship, you'd also have someone to share your life with and improve for. Someone to care about.

Orange85 · Answer

I thought I needed some sort of make attention all the time and it got me in a lot of trouble. I think in general we need eachother. But like someone already said we need to be ok being alone too. So yes we need eachother to survive as a species. And yes I would like to meet my match. But I am going to be ok on my own till then. Never be too desperate in your need for a partner. It will only calls problems

MCheetah · Answer

Other: I don't know.

I used to say "yes." But considering it's f*cking impossible for me to find someone, "no" is becoming more and more of the correct answer in my life. I'm certainly leaning more strongly towards No nowadays.

Anonymous · Answer

Women say they don’t need a man but this is based on the fact that society as a whole is catering to them. Removing most obstacles.

It is created, maintained, and advanced by men.

So women do actually NEED men.

Without men they would live in grass huts and be surrounded by their own shit. If they survived.

Men on the other hand do NOT need women.

Women are actually the main reason our society is stunted. They care about “feelings” and stop advancements because it might upset someone. Yes we enjoy the sex part of females, but in regards to “need”... we don’t.

The common response to this is “wiThoUt w0mEn yOu w0uLdN’t bE heRE”

Men have created an artificial womb and a way to convert sperm cells to egg cells.

The only thing keeping us from using them in human trials is the “moral” aspect which is strongly enforced by female “feelings”.

ElementoP · Answer

I think men and women need each other in general. If there were no men, women would die off fairly quickly considering there wouldn't be many people capable of keeping the world going (building things, fixing things, that kind of stuff). If there were no women, we would probably even sooner because we'd all kill each other. There's a certain synergy between the sexes that makes this all work

FinalFantasyBro · Answer

Do I want to have a woman in the future yes, do zo need a woman in my life no. I have other aspirations that could also keep me busy and happy in life. But yet again I have always been a very independent man so I can obviously handle myself for majority of the time.

Chaser3232 · Answer

If the drive to be needed is acted upon correctly, by both parties, we tend to compliment each other. Mutual appreciation and heathy interactions are paramount in a relationship. However, some will refuse to say they need one another, because that would imply giving up some control. 😱

DCooper · Answer

Nope. When I look back with a completely clear head, every time I had a romantic interest in my life, that situation was a downgrade from the norm. Took me way too long to realize that, but better late than never.

NathanDavis · Answer

definitely... as eventually something will get to need fixed and then I don't really care if a man or a woman, I will want it repaired, lol

Blackcosmo · Answer

I don't need a man but I want to share happiness with a man I will love. I can live without one because it's not like I'll die if I don't find love but I WANT to.

Sandeeppingping · Answer

I mean if they didn't exist I wouldn't even try to look good or do anything really, I wouldn't see the point, so yea I do need girls

fonduegirl · Answer

I'd need a boyfriend/girlfriend for life. Without marriage and kids. I ain't gonna find any. So bye!

Snsl153 · Answer

Need? No, but it would be nice to have someone to share my life with. I guess.

Smoke-n-Growls · Answer

I don't need a partner. I'd like one, but not having one won't make my life miserable.

Sour-rose · Answer

I mean having somone that isn't family and fine with me being me... feels nice.

Marshymallow · Answer

I don’t think I “need” people. I may want one but not “need” lol

DoctorSex · Answer

I will need a woman, but not now. Kind regards, DoctorSex

Guy13 · Answer

Definitely as I need BJs... and I like breasts.

exitseven · Answer

I always thought I was a solo act but I met somebody who changed my mind.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Nope, but it would be nice to have someone keeping my bed warm.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

I need one because the idea of dying alone makes me sad, but I'm more produxtive alone.

jengeorge26 · Answer

I don’t depend on anyone, but I don’t want to be lonely, I value my independence.

Subarugirl · Answer

No, I chose to have the people in my life in my life I don’t need to have them in my life

VV3ZZY · Answer

Naah, you can survive without it. Therefore it's not a need, but a want.

Hardworkingguy · Answer

I would like a woman but sometimes it's difficult since I cannot get a woman pregnant it's unusual to meet a woman who doesn't want any babies

Dnc_21 · Answer

Ofc everyone needs a woman/man it's human nature... most will deny it because they've only been with the wrong people.

Mangospacho · Answer

Yes, I need a woman. There. I said it. I’m therefore kicked out of MGTOW.

Jack1212 · Answer

Because I'm single and I want someone to love me

Ihelppeoplebymilo · Answer

No I don’t need anyone

KatherineJ · Answer

I have a man. I’m keeping him.

Freyke · Answer

No, but I want it. I hope I keep her.

EnglishEuropean · Answer

Yes but not 24/7. lol

driven159 · Answer

can get by on my own with no issues

bigpauly · Answer

I don’t think so.

Pd04utbt · Answer

Yes why do u think im slowly dying?

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