By this I mean, once someone is really fed up with the horrible way you treat them, can any apology, text, call, gifts etc get them to forgive you? Or will they act like you no longer exist to them regardless of your attempts to make things right?
I 100% agree that when the time comes they are dead to you. I don't think there is anything more true that fact. I was married to a women for 24 years, and started disliking her about 15 years in. I means she was always a pain in the ass honestly, but I was completely in love for the first 10 years. By year 12 I started thinking something seriously wrong with this women. By year 15 I was convinced she was a complete looney toon. But I tried to make it work, by more or less putting up with the abuse by ignoring it, or playing it off as if it was some type of joke... its call denial. Buy year 20 I was done, moved out of state and lived as a bachelor... by year 22 divorce started and by year 24 the divorce was over.
She is dead to me, I do not even want an apology, because it would mean nothing. There is absolutely nothing this women could do to make up for all the hurt, pain and suffering she so needlessly made me endure for decades of abusive paranoia, freak ass, crazy bitch... bullshit! I honestly only stayed along as I did for the children and even that ended in disaster.
Was I totally in love with her? Yes, absolutely I was once upon a time. Do I ever want to talk or hear from her even it she wanted to apologize... fuck no!
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It depends on the person. But, yeah it can happen. Sending messages won’t help. What’s needed is time. Time to move on, time to heal, and time to forgive. It may be years, it may be decades, it may be forever.
See as u are saying that u have badly hurt someone. The firstly never try to get with it by just an apology gift or anything like this.
Here the most important thing is
CONVERSATION
Have a deep convo with them about all those feeling and how ur mind was when u did all that to them.
And be ready to hear some hurtful and really painful text from other person cause they be holding onto them for a while. It will burst out on u and somewhere h deserve that too.
And trust me gift and just a damn apology will never work even if u buy them a house.
I think it would makes me madder that a serious outburst was needed for them to please me, I'm a nice person to get along with in deepth and I'm sure I would've done it all to have even better relationship with them. Relationship is two-ways whether family, friendship or romantic needs emotional and economic investment roughly the same for one side to not eventually getting fed up.
I think a change of status quo that's more favorable to me, can earn me back but if they repeat the same mistake I wouldn't give a third chance.
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Pretty much, after all that abuse, that person is dead to me.
It depends who they are, as its not usually a good idea to cut off family members that you will at other family things later. Unless you plan on trying to put others between you and them, things like I'm not coming if THEY are there. Thus putting someone else in a tough spot.
If its a ex, or something like that, yeah cut them off completely but family or people you may not want to, its better to keep a safe distance and don't trust them.
You should always treat people how you want to be treated & if you're a shitty enough person, you should expect to be cut off. There's only so many times someone is going to forgive you for being an asshole, no matter how you try and apologize. It's abusive behavior to say sorry & then repeat the treatment.
It depends on the person, how forgiving they are and their relationship to you. Almost every person will be fed up at some point tho some people are able to forgive the worst things someone has done to them.
Some say,
"Fool (hurt) me once, shame on you,
Fool (hurt) me twice, shame on me.
There's this guy who I purposely wanted him to hate me so he could leave me alone and even after all I did he's still obsessed over me. I was the one who had to cut him of my life and block him everywhere.
If that person is not too "atatached" to the other one, or got used and "accept" the treatment, then yeah is possible to "buy" them back... but if its vice-versa then can be told to fuk off!, easy...
honestly, I think it isn’t acceptable regardless no one show treat someone like trash. No Amount of gifts, calls, text can change that. Be strong and set your boundaries and if they do not respect then they can kick rocks.
Yea I think everyone has a limit, a point of no return. That's why you shouldn't take people for granted...
Yep. at some point it becomes necessary to your own sanity
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He had cut me off completely. My all attempts to get back are getting wasted. I wish I would have treated him the best when he cared
A person can only take so much before they break.. some more then others.
Yep. If the hurt is too much to bare, absolutely.
Sure, why wouldn't they leave?
It depends on each person and what he or she did
Yes, it can and should happen.
A smart person would do that.
Yeah I’ve gone cold before
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