Well, dear sis, first thing at times I find it annoying is sending me a post you see online, especially when it's a relationship thing of a guy and a girl on camera, that's obvious fake, just for the show it does not mean they are not like that, they could be that romantic and want to show the world how to love, but comparison in a relationship is never a good way to talk things, even till date my girlfriend still does this lol, this days I just ask her for what she intended the post she is showing me for, we start the conversation there so I don't just conclude, enough about mine.
It's yours... Talk with him personally, tell him you need to be loved (be sad, and clingy, cute if possible) don't be violent, compliment his actions for you then ask him for some more, that's a trick you can use on anyone,
The issue of your boyfriend as you said his not cheating and all, is that his not a beliver of all those kind of love, he might be dominant maybe if not then it's either he did not get much love experience when growing up,
Try a heart conversation, do romantic things for him in return say to him emotionally how you want to be in his care like this, it's not bad to say pls don't feel big, his not being proud himself he might just not know how to and might be shy to admit it,
By nature everyone shows love how they belive love is to be shown, he hugs u when sad, listen to your rant... I mean he pretty much knows so much, but please social media will be the end of many relationships, stop the comparison, if you still want to show him examples, send a post with a please, this is vice versa, baby please can we try this or so, don't just dump a post in your boyfriend dm and wait for his reply that's like saying ooh u see, this is love, this is a man, see he cares but you don't care bla bla bla.
Create your own fun stuffs, tho sharing don't have 10 heads to be able to think of something that they enjoyed doing and then shared to you, if your think of it, it's not even original as your doing what someone else has done in your relationship
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I don't care how much you want your cat to bark, it is unlikely to happen. What we see is what we get. You like certain qualities of his, yet you feel he should have more to offer. I'm sure you want him to accept you as you are and not for what he sees as your potential, yet you feel entitled to more.
Encouraging him to change will just come across as criticism for not measuring up. If you don't like the total package, trade him in on a new model. If you want to influence him without expecting change, then focus on what you appreciate rather than your sense of entitlement. Whatever direction you focus is the direction you'll go. If you're critical of negative, you'll get more negative. If you're appreciative of positive, you'll get more positive. It's OK to show appreciation for what he does, while not constantly pointing out how he doesn't measure up in other areas. You can give him examples of experiences you had that were meaningful to you, explaining what made them meaningful to you. You can watch movies together that show examples of what you appreciate. Just make sure they are subtleties rather than extremes (which he'll probably minimize as fake). After watching the movie, discuss the scenes that were meaningful to you, focusing on what made them meaningful. By understanding you better, he may fine tune his behaviors. If you prefer to criticize, he'll just become more resistant to change and less likely to take your feelings into consideration.
Call him out and dump him if he dont get it together. Cause hoes these days wanna play
You sound like total opposites. This will probably not end well.
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So, you haven't actually discussed this with him? Just used female codespeak hinting crap?
If he doesn’t want to be romantic you either accept it for what it is, or breakup.
You can’t and should not ever force someone to be or do things to make you happyHonestly you shouldn't have to. He ahould want to he should really be into romance if thats what you like
stop dropping hints and actually say what you mean
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