What would be some values or views you would not compromise on if your partner had an apposing view?

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Meaning if your partner felt the opposite way you couldn’t be with them or accept them? What about your family what views would they not want your partner having?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Basically most things that scream red flags from now on I will listen to my gut. Whenever I ignored those red flags it turned out to be a disaster. I can’t do anymore girls who drink. It’s a sober life for me. It naturally solves most of the problems I have. Same with smoking. If you can’t enjoy life without drugs and alcohol, I don’t want it. I don’t want a girl who doesn’t want kids. I learned these girls are usually crazy or have some severe mental issues or trauma that caused them not to want kids. The last thing would be if she doesn’t want to satisfy certain sexual fantasies I would greatly enjoy. Some women don’t want to do anal at all. These women can kick the bucket. If she’s not open to explore and wants a completely vanilla life, she can have it. These girls don’t truly love you and never will. If they aren’t willing to have anal at least a few times a month, dump them.

PeteBy · Accepted Answer

I'd hope people in a relationship would have already found out enough about each other to determine whether you are compatible and/or willing to agree to disagree on some things.

Frankly I don't care what my family think/thought of my partner as I myself have opposing views on many things to my family.

Regards a female though. I'd let a lot of things slide but I could never be in a relationship with one who had polar opposite views on politics. I only have one friend who is the opposite politically and he knows not to bring that up.

Thankfully. Somehow, despite being from different countries and the chances of us meeting were something like a billion to one. My partner is virtually a female version of me in our views. Just wish I could wean her off that heavy rock music lol

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

I won’t date a guy who thinks racism is okay or a guy who thinks abortion is murder

midnightmoon05 · Accepted Answer

Drugs, alcoholic, laziness. Etc… my family? What about them?

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Just stopped by to poke at you for misspelling ‘opposing’ but turning right around to spell “opposite” correctly several words later. Peculiar given that they have the same root word.
Totally failed to comprehend the question because that was making my brain itch.

MCheetah · Answer

HERE'S ALL MY DEALBREAKERS:

1. Transgenderism (males).

2. Feminist/woke (far-left).

3. Bisexual/queer (lesbians). If they were queer, there is 0% chance I could stay with them.

4. Abusiveness.

5. Polyamory (an adulterer; unfaithful).

6. Promotes lewd content of herself online, including and especially OnlyFans.

7. Has “preferred pronouns,” or uses terms like “genderfluid,” “non-binary,” etc.

Kaneki05 · Answer

We wouldn't of been friends if so. Nvm partners. I can speak to someone with different values of course but if there is something I really disagree on we cannot be friends. Friendly sure but not friends. And I won't hold back on saying my view on things if it does come up.
I am very left minded so as you can imagine anything right minded is a no in my book. I don't like views from 1950s they just be outdated and wrong.

My family? oh they would have no say anyway.

Guardian45 · Answer

Trust, honesty, loyalty, lying. ALL critical pillars of ANY relationship.

Fireguy17 · Answer

Honesty, how the treat others and animals.  Smoking, chronic drug use, drinking way too much too often.

convo_king89 · Answer

Climate change and covid deniers, vaccine conspiracy.. it’s all bullshit cuz u dong know what’s in a vaccine do y refuse to take, well fast food has mystery meat no one is bitch about that.

Stevepro68 · Answer

Hate you better have a damn good reason to hate or I am out.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

If she wants to cheat I wouldn’t agree

bstayl · Answer

-Marriage -Kids -Smoking

Andres77 · Answer

Ummm…

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Abortion.

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