Have you ever experienced a Narcissist people pleasing or doing something for someone as a way to manipulate?

[nspencer]

[CrazyGirl2]

Nope, never! I don’t really associate with any people who have obvious personality flaws like malignant narcissist!

[nspencer]

That’s great lol

[CrazyGirl2]

Well, it’s certainly not a conscious choice, I just guess that those personality types do not exactly lend themselves to one wanting to spend very much time with them. I would suppose that if someone with malignant narcissism was really nice with me and my friends, then obviously yes I would be their friend.

[Guy13]

Yes. It’s really nice, isn’t it.

[nspencer]

Loll it’s a circus 🤦🏼‍♀️😅

[Guy13]

When mine had the charm on it was the most amazing time. So calm, normal, positive like no other place ever…. Not like that for you. I still have to deal with her from a work connection-No choice in the matter. She speaks to me everytime in the way she did when nothing but good. Yours not like that ⁉️

[nspencer]

I’m sorry you still have to deal with her 😪

[Guy13]

It is what it is…. There’s no pursuit thank God but she is as nice as she was when we dated.

[Anonymous]

no such thing

[Opinion Owner]

your question is a complete contradiction of itself

[Opinion Owner]

in what way is someone being manipulative and narcissistic?

[nspencer]

I mean when someone does something for you when you don’t even ask or something you don’t even really want and then use that later to be like look I did this ONE thing for you so I’m this great person😅 when in reality it was something done that benefited them as well and the billions of other crappy stuff outweighs the legit one of few things they ever did for you. Hope that makes sense 😅

[Opinion Owner]

i wouldn't know as I've done lots of things that helped other people and rarely got a thank you or shown any appreciation and when i did get a thank you and shown appreciation it was from homeless people. the woman i love never once thanked me or said thank you to me or shown the slightest bit of appreciation. i did more for her and her family in the last 3 days then all of her ex's and the guy she's cheating on me with combined let alone all the stuff I've helped her and her family with for the last 5 years none of her ex's or the bozo she's cheating on me with has done anything nearly as much as i have for her