Guys, Men, which of these relationships cases are worse?

Caring for your child (ren) and finding out years later that your wife/girlfriend cheated on you
Wife wants a divorce and she ends up taking everything from you
Wife decides she wants a divorce and takes everything from you in the end
Physical/psychological/sexual abuse from your partner
Other/none
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Option C is supposed to be: you find out recently that your girlfriend got raped recently (especially by someone you know)
Guys, Men, which of these relationships cases are worse?
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