Two days ago my boyfriend told me he’s bored. He said that he is tired of “How’s your day” “What did you do”. We’ve been together for 2 1/2 years. He says when I talk I more quantity then quality and that he doesn’t feel interested. I am so much fun around my friends and I think it’s because I have anxiety around him that if I’m not the perfect girl he will leave me (I have no idea why I feel this). I don’t want to see him hurt or unhappy, what should I do to be more interesting and engaging?
For reference we have been doing long distance for 2 1/2 years but we still try and visit for a few days a month.